What to wear to bed

This is the first time my boyfriend is going to stay the night. what should I wear to bed, I don't want to wear lingerie and look like I'm looking for something.. so what should I wear? like a t-shirt and cute panties, cute panties and a sports bra.. what?
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  • I believe it all depends on how far you've went together...if you 2 have already had sex then it doesn't matter you could sleep naked if you like but if you haven't had sex and aren't planning to I suggest you wear a t-shirt with pajama pants (you don't want to seem as if your trying to be easy wearing panties) he will respect you just a little more knowing your not half naked throwing yourself at him...if you've already had sex but this is just the first time he's sleeping over throw on a t-shirt and a cute thong...hope I helped =)



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  • I'd wear about the same thing. Well I did when I slept with my boyfriend the first all nighter. lol! The t-shirt will accent your boobs and nips good and cute panties really get to a guy in bed. Plus it'll be easy for him to slide his hands in on the real thing or take them off in a flash. I can't think of a better way to dress for bed with a guy. Right, sexy lingerie will look like you're looking for something. You could also wear an oversized t with cute thongs because that's about the perfect outfit for bed with a guy. He'll love you in that outfit too. ;-) Just make sure you feel comfortable with what you wear.

  • if you guys haven't had sex yet and your not planning too you can just wear a tank top, bra, and some cute pajama shorts. But if you have had sex with him then just wear a tank top and some cute underwear but what ever makes you comfortable because if you wear something that you don't like sleeping in and he will be able to tell don't stress over it

    hope I helped =)

    GOOD LUCK!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Honestly as long as it is cute, clean & not to flannel like your good. Here is an excellent example of what can keep you warm and yet look great:

    Cute Tank top & pants

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    Cute boy shorts like this also works without looking like it is working

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    Just stay fun and light, dress as thin as you are comfortable and just hug your guy he will love it.

  • small top and boy shorts, a cute thong, long knee high sock. pig tail hair style. smile a lot.

    pillow fight. tickle fight.

    don't put too much make up on cause it won't last over night and its freak us guys out to see what we think is a different girl in the bed.

    any questions just ask.

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  • my boyfriend loves it most when I wear a tank top and cute panties. its sweet and innocent but comfortable. just the fact your spending the night together he won't care what you wear!

  • Do what makes you feel comfortable. Don't push yourself to do something that makes you feel awakard.

    I'd do a cami with cute panties or girl boxers, depending on how much you want to show him. If you do wear a t shirt, I would accent it with sexier panties - something lacier or smaller. Don't wear a sports bra! Not cool.

    • I think it is fun to dress in something sexy when you are sleeping with my bf. I agree with the cami and cute panty idea. T-shirts aren't overly sex and definitely don't wear a bra to bed. He gets so turned on with being able to undress me slowly.

  • Most important is that you feel completely comfortable, that's when you will feel the most confident and your boyfriend will feel that vibe and he'll love the fact that you feel at ease. I'd say a big white t-shirt and cute panties. Have fun and enjoy your quality time together ;)

  • t shirt and shorts

  • Oversized t-shirt (Try and steal his!) and panties or comfortable short shorts!

  • a tank top or baby-tee with no bra, and underwear (I think girl boxers or cheekies are hawt).

    if you've got a chest that's more to the larger side, wear a soft fitted u-neck top because it shows off the boobage and cleavage rather nicely, yet retaining some modesty.

  • where what you want to wear. if he loves you, he won't care really what you wear. I know girls in generaly worry more than guys about this and I do worry about it but you know, just something cute should be fine to impress him

  • A nice warm smile and the glint of arousal juices. :) Anything else will just be in his way.

  • If you guys haven't had sex yet, just put on a cute t-shirt and some cute yet sexy panties, he'll adore you

  • whatever you normally wear. I like to wear his shirts :) and just a pair of panties. but wear what you normally would. unless you sleep in the nude! haha

  • I was actually thinking the same thing I think I'm just going to wear what I usually wear a big tee shirt and shorts, just knowing that he's sleeping next to you will turn him on.

  • Wearing nothing is best.

  • A t-shirt and cute panties is an excellent idea. Or cute panties and a sports bra. Boxer shorts look really cute on a girl too.

    • And if you're comfortable with your body you could try nothing at all! lol

  • t-shirt and panties is always nice. or if you want to spend some money, a baby doll from victoria secrets will be really nice. good luck

  • I'll go for the 2nd option, adorable to men =)

  • I just wear a cammy and panties. (But I've never had my boyfriend over for the night). But go with panties, they show off your ass but don't say "FUCK ME!" and as for a top, tank top, bra, what ever you are comfortable with.

  • Thong and t shirt!

  • Well I think you should wear a t shirt and underwear

  • t shirt and panties!