How to teach my girl to be on top.

Well ladies...throughout the years it seems that every girl I've f***ed has been on the bottom. and now me and my long term girlfriend want to switch things up with her on top...the problem is, is that she is having trouble... i don't know if it is just trial and error thing...or if its her not being comfortable with looking down on me for a change... but how did YOU learn to ride the pogo stick...cause all I can really do right now is cheer her on while she tries. I don't know what else to tell her besides, "you can do it!" Thanks!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • She has to be confident enough to do it.

    Confident about herself and comfortable enough with you-she will probably be feeling exposed (lol yeah literally) with being on top and being in control if she is used to you being on top.

    Probably if she's not confident she's going to be feeling self concious.

    For me I didn't "learn" to do it it just comes naturally,you need to get her relaxed about it.

    Make sure she knows she is doing a good job,but I think its one of those things she will just have to get used to and build confidence.

  • Yeah , tell her to use her hips. I didn't know how to do it on top either. let her know it takes a few trials for everyone. :)

  • lol that's horrible way to ask it pogo stick you can do it come one now. watch a movie maybe or just give her cosmo.com lol

Most Helpful Guys

  • Have her on top, with her knees up. Feet almost up by your armpits.

    Have her slide forward and back, you can even put your hands on her knees... And help her, by pulling and pushing her legs toward and away from your shoulders...

    This is one way, that she is sure to get off using, her own body weight working to help her grind into you back and forth.

    • This one I might try. Thanks.

  • I think the main thing is she has to want it, she has to be comfortable with you, and she's gotta like getting her freak on.

    Maybe if you asked her what her feelings on the matter were, that might help.

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  • Hold her hips & tell her how to move. Guide her in the way you want her to go. Eventually she'll follow the rhythm on her own . . .

  • watch a porn movie together that mite help good luck