my first time...i was so horny because he had so turned on first..i can feel I want something inside me it almost feel like its itchy for dick or something..it feels good when it was just rubbing outside first but when he slip in it was extremely painful, acheishh he pump it as fast as he could and it was killing me he did it for him to come fast as he could he knows its painful but at the same time he wants it adjusted more quickly..it hurt a lot evrytime he push in more and more and when he hit the most of it I felt like as if I had fever literally I had that's normal..the next day it was untouchable I can't sit properly,the 3rd day we tried it again and again and again..the next week it was healing and its itchy because the skin heals so it was awesome,he taught me how to rub my clit while he's inside he stick his pinky on my ass too just on the opening he said it was to get my brain off focus to the pain..to make the brain feel different things at once so it was balance and then it was fun since...
I found it very painful my first time. Took a long time for my partner to 'break' in and at first it was like a sharp sudden pain, like when you have period pains but just a sudden one for a few seconds, after that it aches, then the aching fades and it starts to feel more comfortable. Over time nothing is felt anymore and it's enjoyable, but that's after a few more times having sex. It's going to ache a little bit after the initial breaking.
How long does it take for the torn hymen to heal?
Also how can I make my 1st time so that its not too painful? any tips or suggestions?
It takes quite a long time to heal, but you don't feel the pain for long or notice it's healing. You will just feel some aching for a few days or even weeks, it's different for each girl though, depending on her body size and shape. I suggest using a lot of lubricant for your first time on your partner and yourself. Make sure your partner makes firm and sure movements but not thrusting too hard or too gently. It will gradually break in and it won't be as painful when there is constant movement.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!My first time actually wasn't painful at all. I was expecting it to just be painful and something I had to deal with because of other girls' stories, but I enjoyed it.
I'm sure it was mostly because he had already fingered me a lot; that's a good thing to do if you want it to be less painful. And like another girl said, make sure you're relaxed and keep lube around in case you need it.
Also what helped me was that I was on top, so I had control of everything; I could go slowly until it got more comfortable, and I could make sure he didn't go too fast or too deep.
As long as you're ready and safe, you'll be fine, and make sure you're with someone who's willing to take their time and make you feel comfortable.
My first time didn't hurt at all. It was with a girl who used one of her fingers to penetrate me. She broke my hymen, but it didn't hurt. We took it slow and steady and she got me used to it nice and gradually. By the time I had sex with a dick, he didn't hurt at all either. For girls paranoid about the pain, I recommend having sex with a girl first.
I got lucky with my first time, I'd say.
I didn't bleed at all, for one. And it wasn't painful, per se - a bit tight, yeah, and it took a moment for me to get accustomed to the feeling, but after a while it honestly was not as bad/painful as I had always expected it to be.
That said, it wasn't entirely pleasurable either. At least, it's a lot more enjoyable now than it was back when I did it for the first time.
I was a bit dizzy afterwards, but I'm pretty sure that was only because I was still recovering from being sick at the time, haha, and because I was really just overrun with emotion.
When you do have sex though, the most important thing is to be relaxed. If you're nervous, you'll tighten up, and it'll just make things more difficult than they have to be.
Don't go too fast, either. There's no rush to get your body all broken in, it'll happen after a few times, so just yeah, go slow and take it easy.
Gosh, you girls are scaring me =/...(virgin) xx
my first time was great, my second time, I was in so much pain after it I couldn't move. it was a sharp pain everywhere below my waist and it hurt soo much. if you've never masturbated or your hymen is still in tact, its going to hurt a lot the first time.
you're asking how it feels so you must be thinking about it, be sure to use protection.
How long does it take for the torn hymen to heal?
a lot of the time the hymen id already at least torn. activities such as cycling can cause it to break. I'm a virgin so I wouldn't personally know but everyone is different.
Great question..I have never been a womans first!
My first time, my guy had a hard time getting it in, he kind of had to push me down on it, which is not the best thing to do. So don't do that, take it slow. For me it felt like a sudden sharp pain and then a burning sensation followed by continuous throbs or pain. It felt kind of like when you touch a cut, or open wound, that sharp burning pain. Only it hurt every time he moved, especially when he slipped out and went back in, that was the worst. I bled for a couple days and was pretty sore for a while but the second time was much better.
Also, you don't need to start off with a position that allows for deep penetration, the hymen is right at the entrance of the vagina, so if he's long enough to get in in there, and I hope he is, then you shouldn't have any problems. Going too deep sometimes can be a different kind of painful. I would try you on top the first time, that way you can go at a rate that is comfortable for you, and if it gets too painful you can stop.
My first time didn't hurt at all but it was over too quickly and wasn't all that great because I was kinda worried about it lol
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