If I tell my boyfriend I like lesbian porn, will he automatically want a threesome?

[Anonymous]

I like lesbian porn. Guys are so ugly and it seems like they are rude to girls in the movies...so I just like it better, but I'm not a lesbian. My boyfriend asked me if I like porn and I said yea and he asked me what kind and I just changed the subject. If I told him is he going to accuse me of being a lesbian? Will he automatically suggest a threesome or watch me having sex with a girl (I would never do that) what it be bad if I told him?

[curioussubf]

I like watching it myself, mostly for the same reasons.

We don't know your boyfriend and so we cannot say what he'll be thinking or what he'll say, but...

If he accuses you of being a lesbian, let him know you happen to like penis.

If he suggests a threesome, and you are NOT interested, tell him no, you just like watching girls for just about the same reasons he likes watching girls.

It would not be bad to share in most cases, unless he's very strict on how sex should be (i.e. only between a man and a woman). More than likely, he'll probably just want to watch it with you and then get it on afterward. Lol.

[Enishi]

Lol Or during. Same exact reasoning for me, I hate looking at naked guys. Though, I have to say, I have known a few guys that seemed to have a thing for gay porn, despite hiding it and saying and acting like they were straight.

[Anonymous]

I watch lesbian p*rn with my fiance. He doesn't want a threesome because he would get jealous of another person pleasuring me. So it all depends on him. I dont want to have a threesome either. If he is respects you he won't try to force a threesome, or try to push you into having one with him. :) hope this helps.

[JustDance]

Well the thought would come across his mind for sure lol, may even spell it out for you haha

but thing is, you have the power since ur the woman here, guys have no power when it comes to sex.. unless its RAPE :S but hey LOTS of girls watch lesbian porn because of that reason and other reasons too... if he is immature and keeps suggesting ur a lesbian when ur not and bugging you about it then congratulations, your boyfriend is immature :D

[Asker]

Good response thanx

[NMMan]

If you share your preference for lesbian porn, I don't know if he will automatically assume that you'll want a threesome, but he probably will believe that you're at the very least open to the idea. Whether that's correct or not, only you know, but I bet that's what his thought process would be.

[Asker]

Yea that's why I don't want to tell him

[pootytangg]

So dont tell tf?

[l-hedoniste]

Before you ask, are you sure he doesn't want a threesome anyway? If he does, this will be an excuse to bring up the topic.

Why not just settle the issue altogether, and put out there what you will do, what you would think about doing, and what's out of the question?

[KevinMiller]

I would tell him...but be up front. Men and women view porn very differently, so you need to explain to him why you do it. I would hope that he would not automatically jump to those things. If he really knows you and cares for you he wouldn't.

[Kotten]

Tell him if he asks again, but also explain why. I don't think he would suggest a threesome or anything of the sort.

[jacquesvol]

It depends on a few things:

-your ability to explain to him why you like that xxx and not the rest.

-the "balance of power" between you and the quality of your relationship

-his personality

He will probably THINK and speak about a MFF threesome or watching you ( most men would)

Up to you to fix your limits.

If he's a serious guy and your relationship is good he will respect them.

[JennieF]

Maybe.

[Anonymous]

Everyone enjoys something different. Women are beautiful creatures and the female body is amazing. I know many straight girls who enjoy lesbian porn. You should be able to discuss your interests with your boyfriend and have him accept it and not pressure you into a sexual situation you aren't interested in.