How to be more intimate with my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

So me and my boyfriend have been together for a little bit now, and I was wondering how can I be more intimate with him? Like when I'm kissing him and stuff? I think really what I'm asking is more how to tease him and stuff, not really how to be more intimate. But yea how can I tease him? Is sending picture of me in like my bra and underwear a good idea, or dirty texts, or what? Please give me ideas. I'm 17 and a half by the way

[Thewhitestdudeever]

Yeah that's not really being more intimate actually. Intimacy is something you can't do with a text message or on the phone. Real intimacy is how you move, how you touch him, how you speak to him and that sort of thing. It cam be as simple as a kiss on the shoulder to getting real crazy and just grabbing his cock. One thing I used to do to tease an ex of mine was before I went down on her I would kiss her everywhere except her vag first, I wouldn't even touch it for about 5 minutes or so, and slowly move my way closer. Usually she couldn't even take the full 5 minutes and would grab the back of my head and force me to lick her haha. Just like what a man does when getting a bj lol. Sometimes I would even do a little striptease and a lap dance for her too. It's weird how similar men and women really are actually. But the point is it can be as simple as you want or as extravagant as you want. Either way it's all fun.

[summiter]

Avoid sending sex texts. You never know where they end up. How far have you gone with him? I am sure he wants sex like a million other teenagers but he may have to settle with masturbation for a while. Have you two talked about sex and where you want to take it? It is only sex and you can't read each others minds, so talk about it!

Are both of you virgins? If so, take it real slow and most of all communicate and talk about things ahead of time. I am sure you know about taking birth control precautions every time! How long have you know each other and do you want to take it to another level?

[Asker]

Well we've known each other for over a year and a half and have been dating for about a year. We have talked about sex but I'm not really ready for it and he's fine with that. We're both virgins by the way

[summiter]

Take your time and only take things to the next level when you both are ready. It does not have to be intercourse, it could just be fingering & handjobs. But as far as the teasing, always leave him anticipating a little bit.

[Asker]

Ohh okay thank you

[summiter]

Are things working out? Have you two talked about sex?

[Asker]

We have talked about sex before and last night I talked to him about it again. He kept telling me it didn't matter when I decided to have sex and he is fine with waiting until I'm confortable with it. I told him that maybe in a month or two I'll be ready. If I am then after that it can just happen naturally.

[slackercruster]

Give him a massage. Stroke the back of his upper arm and inner thigh. Try a bath or shower together. If your not comfortable nude, just keep kissing and stroking each other and lying in each others arms.

[Asker]

Okay thank you