Sexual Health
+1 y

How Do You Suggest Plastic Surgery To Your Girlfriend?

My girlfriend and I have been going out for like a year.We have had sex and everything.I'm her first,she isn't my first,I've been with other girls. She has small boobs,but her areolas are a little too big for her boobs,and it is a turn off. And her labia majora is a little big,it isn't like hanging or sagging or anything like that,it's just,i guess you could say,"fat".Lets just say they aren't thin I guess,it isn't like the girls in porn and like the other girls I've been with So,here's my Q,how do you suggest plastic surgery to you girlfriend.Without hurting her feelings or making her insecure,how can I suggest plastic surgery to her? Like areola and labia surgery?If you're going to say I'm an a** and I'm asking her for my benefit,well think about it,I'm her first and I'm not attracted to it,what are the chances of another guy liking or being attracted to her when she's naked? So how do I suggest it?
0 1

Most Helpful Girls

  • I am going to tell you that you're asking for your benefit. You're not suggesting her to try on different clothes, you want her to get surgery! because she doesn't look like girls in porn. Think about it for a second.What if you had just had your first time with a girl and she said. "Hunny, I'm sorry. But your penis isn't as good looking as guys in porn. It's a turn off for me and I don't think girls will ever accept you for your freakish penis. So get surgery ok?" That's humiliating! And there are guys who will like her for it even if you don't. Please do NOT ruin this girl's self esteem for life by blaming her for something she has NO control over. It's something she was born with. I'm disgusted that you would even think about suggesting your girlfriend get surgery for your sick porn fantasies.

    If you don't like her then dump her. And I hope your next girlfriend finds something nasty about your body and tells you to go get surgery.

    • One of the best answers right here.

    • I agree,great answer.

    • This is the best answer

  • I wouldn't suggest doing that at all. That can majorly lower a girl's self esteem, especially in our society. She may already feel self conscience of them, and if you say something that could only make it worse. Why not just try accepting her the way she is already? If you aren't satisfied with her, maybe it's time to find someone else. There are plenty of guys that are happy to have a girl and aren't all about superficial crap and what their woman looks like. Sure looks are a part of it, but to guys who are ready for a real commitment, the way their woman looks doesn't matter so much anymore. It'd be one thing if you were asking her to get a different hairstyle. But your asking her to change her body, and for selfish reasons. If you suggest it, I seriously see her finding her "second".

  • 1)Break up with her.

    2)Never contact her again or speak to her again

    3)Find a girl who will turn you on and who is "perfect" and has no flaws,cause I'm guessing you have no flaws am I right?

    Let her go so she can find a guy who loves her and cares about her.There are guys who will be attracted to her.

    I bet you're one of those ugly fat guys who expects their gfs to be a model.So you're thinking this about her,you should ask her what surgery she would recommend for you,you probably have a small d!ck anyways

    Sheesh.

    She can do better than you.

    • A girl who will turn him on and who is perfect - no flaws.... Don't they have blow up dolls?

Most Helpful Guys

  • All right, I've got to be a little confrontational with this one.

    You don't. Either accept her as she is, or get the hell out of Dodge. Then she'll be free to go out and find someone who's less callous.

    Honestly, think about it from her point of view for a moment. You're basically saying, "You're so ugly you need surgery, but I guess I can stand it." I can't think of a scenario where a woman wouldn't be devastated by such an insult. But then you've been hanging around her for a year even as you're turned off, no doubt driving her self-image down with your lukewarm reactions to her sexuality. I don't think that's doing her any favors either.

    As to her not being like the girls in porn... If you take an objective look at your own equipment, I dare say you'll find you probably don't measure up so well against the guys in porn yourself. They've been hired to act in porn flicks for a reason.

  • lol, are you serious? What if she tells you that you are too poor and have a baby dick, would you get upset?

    She is most likely not going to spend $10K on surgery to make it so you aren't repulsed by her body, so if you don't like her then just break up with her and find a porn star to date. Make sure you tell her why you are breaking up with her so she doesn't feel bad about losing you.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

Girls, do you have sex drive?
I just want to get fucked! How to get a guy to approach you/notice you at a party?
Are you mentally ill or mentally healthy, and is it difficult or easy for you to orgasm during masturbation?
If a guy told you he could cum farther than he can pee, what would be your reaction?

What Girls & Guys Said

19 8

  • I see you have two choices. Find someone who is better suited to your own needs. This would probably be easier for her to deal with. Second choice-- tell her you would be willing to change anything about yourself that she doesn't like. If she says you're perfect just the way you are, you don't deserve her anyway. Move on.

  • I suggest you get a reality check. Let me get this straight: A woman shares her body with you, just you, and you have any problems with it? What are the chances of her finding someone better than you? Sounds like her best bet is to dump your sorry ass ASAP and find someone worth sharing herself with, and leave you to Rosie.

  • This is blatently a wind up though

  • Well,in the same way youd suggest telling someone they need a personality transplant I suppose ;o)

  • Any person you are with, you should respect and love for who they are - not what they can offer you. If I were you, I'd look beyond what your issues are with her and see what issues you may have. Trust me, not many men will find what you stated above as unattractive - hell, mose won't give a damn.

    If you truly are not attracted to her and don't think you two will last, then I suggest breaking up - maybe that's the best thing you cld do for her. She deserves some1 who looks at her with awwww everytime. Also, You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, she is beautiful because you love her!

  • Just put it this way, what if she asked you to get penis enlargement surgery? There's your answer.

  • I don't think there's really any way to do it without making her self-conscious and/or depressed and/or mad at you.

  • Tell her that, those pants make her vagina look fat.

    It will be poetic if she leaves you in the search for a better guy, after making you pay for the surgeries. How romantic.

  • guys WILL be attracted to her.

    people are beautiful BECAUSE we're all different!

    you're a pig, and shallow and don't deserve her.

    if you loved her, you'd accept her flaws.

    anyways, your girlfriend probably thinks your balls are 2 different sizes and wants you to get that fixed. oh yea, and the lack of abs I'm sure you have...do something about that too. mmkay?

  • you should dump her and let her find someone who is into that kind of thing.

  • Here's how you suggest the plastic surgery: You don't. She does. If she's happy with what she has, live with it.

    If you can't live with her, leave her, and go find what you want, so she have a man who wants her. There's an excellent chance that another guy will be attracted to her. Just because she's not your type doesn't mean she's not *someone's* type.

  • Wow, you're an ass. It's her body. She does with it what she wants. If she's happy the way she is then who are YOU to make her feel insecure? Deal with it or move on and let another guy who would gladly worship the ground she walked on step up to the plate.

  • *facepalm*

    If she's not attractive enough to you, just move on bro, don't ask her to go under the knife. I squirm at such a prospect.

    • Yea,i've wasted about a year of my life with her,why throw a year down the drain?

    • Since you views your relationship with her as "wasting your life" then break up with her.There's a guy who will love her for who she is and won't see his time with her as a waste

    • Wow. Why did you even go out with her in the first place if you weren't attracted to her? Did you always expect her to get plastic surgery if you dated her for a long period of time? What is wrong with you?

    • Show All

  • Well just as long as your willing to take the criticism back. I'm sure you could do with a tummy tuck, chin lift, acne removal, removal of hair below, rogaine for your receding hairline and the list goes on and on.

    The fact is, you have "imperfections" just as she does. Yet she still sleeps with you. I think you should be grateful.

  • i wanna say thank you to the guys that pretty much called you a douche because those are guys who look past just a psychical side to someone.

    • Im a guy, and may I just say. Amen to your comment.

  • how can you say others won't be attracted to her? what if she thought your penis was smaller than what she had seen in her porn video? put yourself in her shoes. if you don't like her the way she is ...look for someone else

  • You sound like a major asshole.

    "If you're going to say I'm an a** and I'm asking her for my benefit,well think about it,I'm her first and I'm not attracted to it,what are the chances of another guy liking or being attracted to her when she's naked?"

    Women don't have to be perfect for men to find them attractive. I bet you have many flaws.

  • Come on dude there are many guys that would love her no matter what she looks like. And you know what most guys are turned on by a girl with a big labia, you don't have to believe me though, just do a poll on here...So seems you are in the minority...

  • I think that the odds of another guy accepting her as she is and not trying to make her into his sex toy are some pretty realistic expectations. Everybody likes different things. For example, she likes you, but most of the chicks on this sight probably don't.

  • you have a lot of growing up to do...if you are not attracted to her. Break up with her so she can find a guy who is. She shouldn't have to change her body to please one boyfriend. And btw, if you suggested plastic surgery, she would dump you anyway if she has any dignity.

  • Show More (7)

Latest Questions

If you had the power to snap your fingers and make something happen instantly what would it be?
Higher levels of dopamine and testosterone by 0.3% population? Is abnormal sex mania a good thing if there is self control and discipline?
I have been questioning my sexuality lately, Am I Bisexual?
Why would any man believe a real raped victim is damaged goods?
Home >  Sexual Health  > How Do You Suggest Plastic Surgery To Your Girlfriend?