How can I surprise my boyfriend?
So I wanna do something a little sexy for honey when he comes home from work late night. Now I am a mother of 3 so I'm not the sexiest person so I'm a little self conscious of showing too much... so I just wanna do something that makes me comfortable and he enjoys ... any ideas?
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We have been enjoying Laura Corn's 101 "Nights of Grrreat Romance" link
Personally the best thing after a hard stressful day is a candle lit back massage from my wife wearing something sexy to start the evening. When your man is beat after a late day, he probably needs some time to decompress before going at it.
Body issues and stretch marks? Try a babydoll with a flowing fit over the tummy that shows enough to be sexy but you feel comfortable in.
What Guys Said 2
Send him some naughty texts while he is at work to get him riled up. When he gets home do a lot of dirty talk before hand, tell him how bad you want him, be VERY graphic in details. Tell him exactly what you want to do to him.
And hey, nothing turns me on more then when my girl WANTS to give me a blowjob. If you wanna make him happy, give them away like free balloons!
Depends on what your strengths are, if you know them, play up to them.
Self conscious about body issues? Use a little mystery, maybe turn out a few lights and welcome him home in a seductive way. If you want to make love, wear the lingerie he likes best, If you want to make dinner for him, make it the best version of his favorite you can.
What Girls Said 3
here's a new idea. text him and say I wanna play a simple game and its very entertaining. make sure that he plays... when he says yes take a picture of the sexy lingerie your wear and include the instructions which is what item does he want you to remove first and go from there if he wants you to do something like play with yourself or something go along with it but its like you take the picture of what he wants to see happen and send it to him. its quite fun ;P so have fun :P
try a vibrating **** ring... most likely he has never used one and will be thrilled that you wanna try something completely different. You will surprise him, and its BEST for both.