What kind of lingerie do guys like? My boyfriend only likes Micro skimpy stuff I am not comfortable wearing,

Okay, I used to work as a dancer and did wear outfits, but I think because my boyfriend has looked at a lot of porn and magazines in the past, regular lingerie does not do it for him. We were just at a lovers lane and he didn't like what I picked out, he only bought this tiny weird looking thong, I have to show a pic of it, It's literally a string with a tiny piece of shiny fabric in the shape of an oval a very skinny oval, He also has gotten me these slingshots on eBay that would make Pamela Anderson blush. They are shiny metallic "wet suit" looking colors, feminine black lace and fishnet baby doll, chemises do not work with him, I wish I could be more flattered but I honestly feel ridiculous in it, I do not think it looks good on me. Shouldn't I wear something I feel confident in? But he'll only buy me something he likes. Am I wrong to think that is slightly selfish. And I can't help if have an uncomfortable expression wearing something I am not comfortable in, Please check out these links, the 2nd is the thong, I do like normal thongs but I hate this shape, I like the V kind. And the last pic he bought for me, Girls would you wear this? I think I have a nice body, I'm not Giselle or anything but it still it doesn't matter

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Thank you all...Here is the thing, He says that no one can see but both of us, But I am like still it doesn't matter! It's worse than stripper trashy, But I guess you can see a lot of skin in it, Its not the only thing he likes, But we can't agree on this
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HE says I'm not asking you to walk down the street in it, But still, I'd rather wear something I felt sexy in, not ridiculous. That stringy one on a mannequin I never wore, but he just bought me that thong in red. Just the thong and shoes supposed to wear
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Ebay, these are just examples of some of the extreme things. I really want to meet him half way I just hoped he might want to buy me something he'd know I'd feel great in. But he'll buy me what he wants to see me in most of times.
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I kind of feel like I'm giving him a bad rap, because he has bought me a lot of stuff Victoria Secret/Fredricks we've both liked, Its just that he likes this too, And bodysuits,
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What about how he always says that Nobody can see but him! He says, "I'm not asking you to walk down the street in it"
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HE ONLY WANTS OR ASKS ME WEAR THIS DURING/BEFORE SEX, NOTHING I'D WEAR OTHERWISE EVEN IF I WOULD WEAR ANY OF THIS! thank YOU ALL
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  • so i have read this and just wanted to put in my thoughts from a blokes position and honest.

    so although that may not be my style of lingerie i do see where your fella is comming from. he obviously has a style of clothing (if you can call it that haha) that he likes to see ladies in. he has taken the time to buy it and to give it to you as a gift, that in its self has got to be good? he's thinking about you and your relationship and say "hay this is what i like" he could have gone about it in a different way and just said that he didn't like you outfits that you already had and well would have probably ended the relationship.

    it may not be what you like and you may feel silly wearing it, but he must think that you look sexy wearing it as thats why he brought it for you. i am also assuming that he would probably be a little more passionate as he would be thinking "yeah my lovely lady is doing this for me" and if he is anything like me i am sure that if you had some thing that you wanted him to wear he would, regardless of how silly it would make him feel? afterall my wife humours me as i have a weird one that i like ladies in wetsuits (i know weird but i can't help it it drives me mad :o)) but she knows this and every now and again she will endulge in my passion and she has said that i am different and show a lot more affection and more touchy feely, also it has lead to different situations arising and positions that have made it more fun.

    is a relationship not about do things that you dont/wouldnt do normally its about compramise? if you really dont like that then is there something else that you could compramise on? and like others have said you will litterally put it on before sex and take it off during lol. so no one will see it and if he thinks that you look sexy dose that not make you feel sexy as i alwasy throw compliments and make it a little more sexy?

    lastly have you ever sat down with him and told him all this? and said to him look i really dont like this i would prefer this or have you skirted around the subject like "yeah thats ok but how about this" as us blokes dont hear whats being said and need a stronger look i really dont like that...

    anyways just my 2 pence on the subject hope it helps see it from your fellas perspective

  • i like lingerie that is way different from that so I don't know if my opinion can help.thongs are good but I love those panties that are more lacy less revealing as in more fabric I love those panties that are not a thong not regular panties but there like this shape the makes the ass look awesome

    • I like normal lacy panties, but he just wants me to wear them not under clothes buy during sex.

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  • It is selfish.Your comfort should matter two,there are two people,not one.Maybe try to compromise on this

    Would I wear it?Well, I'm a virgin,and not sexually active,but if I was,then yes,but chances are,if he bought it for you,then he thinks you'll look good in it

    If you do not feel comfortable wearing these items,then don't wear them.

    • **TOO bad grammar on my part

    • Lol wow. are you a perfectionist lol :P

    • LOl,no.(:

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  • Wow, I would be kind of p*ssed if my boyfriend wanted me to wear that kind of thing. I'd rather wear something that I feel sexy and confident in, instead of something that looks like a 2 dollar hooker would wear. No offense if anyone likes that kind of thing, I just think it looks really really trashy.

  • Buy him some outrageous man whore outfits and ask him to do the same thing... and give the same excuse when he refuses.

    • I did ask him that and he said he would if I wanted him too! I know I should right, I said like wouldn't you feel ridiculous and he said yeah he would but he'd still do it.

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  • Tell HIM to put on a pair of crotchless golden thong suspenders lol

    • I like this idea. Tell him it turns you on lol

  • I have to say, all of those look like he bought them from Strippers R Us.

  • Victoria secret but I think that you should only wear what you are conferable wearing not what he wants you to wear.

  • I personally never force my girlfriend to wear this and that, she knows how to to bexy body shape and outfit for indoor and outdoor, she stay at home Simi nude, mostly with G-string or Thong.

  • none of those are even classy lol :/

    sorry but that ain't my style lol, that's what sluts wear to "classy events"

    • I know they're supposed to be trashy its for sex But I really didn't wouldn't like having sex in it even

    • Yeah like, I just don't like that style at all.. its like what a classy prostitute wheres to a bachlor party to get f***ed by 10 men. I don't know.. lol but I guess this is weird of me to say, but seeing a girl in that, is totally degrading for the women in my point of view... I guess ur boyfriend likes the super trashy/whorish costumes. to each his own I guess

    • Well, that's not ALL he likes, he does like some other stuff that is feminine, he's obsessed with pantyhose and stockings,and he says he just likes to see more skin...

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