I really want to fist my boyfriend? any tips?

I really want to fist him and he has agreed. other than using lots of lube is there anything I should know?
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  • I hope you guys have tried other anal play before going for this. You should probably go very slow, use lots of lube, and he has to be really relaxed. I would look elsewhere online for information on this too. You don't want to cause any damage.

  • This probably won't be appreciated but the only advice I can give is to rethink shoving your arm up your boyfriend's asshole.

  • You should probably start with something smaller like a finger, then 2, etc.

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  • He's a lucky guy to have a girlfriend that wants to fist him. There are many males that wish their female partner were into it. Where can I meet a woman that is into giving and receiving fisting?

  • He agreed? I'm surprised. That can be fairly painful and cause actual maybe even permanent damage, butts weren't designed for that. This is not a hentai, you shouldn't really do more than fingers. Vaginas might support kids coming out of them, but I haven't had a shit that was as thick as my first.

    • Actually the arsehole will stretch more than a vagina, about 2 times more. Mainly because the hips hinder the basins from stretching to far and the anus will also heal itself after being stretched that far whereas the vagina will not.

  • THATS ENOUGH GAG FOR ME TODAY

  • he gets to fist your ass too? Right? OMG.. You guys watch a lot of porn?

  • Make sure he uses an anal douche first lol

  • Take pictures. It may only happen once. Are you gay?

  • Take it from a guy who enjoys, lots of anal play with his girlfriend (fisting, dildos, vibrators, fuck machines-sibians and others, strapons), that FISTING is incredible if done right! We are talking EARTh shattering orgasms! Yes we have normal sex in her pussy and ass and also in my ass. We have both completely removed our body hair.. We love sex and we love watching each other ride dildos or get fucked at the same time by fuck machines where we control the intensity for the other person.

    But understand you need to set a good amount of time for that and relax relax relax. As in turn off your phones. Start with both getting yourself and your guy an enema. This can be an erotic activity and fun together. Cut and trim your nails if you are not going to be wearing a nitrile glove.

    A good way to relax would be to give each other a good full body massage and be sure to lay some towels. Coconut oil is natural, can be used externally and internally and doesn't damage toys. As you are doing the massage, start massaging his butthole and slowly start inserting a finger--apply lots of coconut oil in his butt. He can be on his belly or his back. I like being on my back with with my butt under a pillow bc I like to watch when my tiny girl sticks her big cock or her hand in my ass and tells me to take it in like a real man. I'm a straight muscular 6'4 guy and this is always a turn on.

    If he is not used to being fingered or dildos, buttplugs, etc. Go VERY slowly with your finger. THEN keep lubbing his ass with coconut oil and insert another finger. Find the prostate and play with it while you stroke his cock. When he is more relaxed, add another finger.

    For a first time, find some sensual porn not the BDSM rough stuff OR you will scare him.

    Have fun and let us know how it went! :) show some pictures too!

    Of course there will be one stupid dude who will say that I'm gay but nothing can be further from the truth! You all don't know what you've been missing until you get fisted and you keep coming.

  • Fist him? What do you mean by that?

    • Oh man. You've got a lot to learn. Look up "fisting". You're on the path to enlightenment.

    • That just is so gross, why would you want to do that?