Why do my Girlfriends nipples show when bending over?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend fits a b cup bra size she is 17. Iv noticed that any shirt that is cut semi low shows her nipples when she leans forward or pushes her shoulders together a bit. She tends to be oblivious to it unless I point it out. She doesn't wear low cut shirts. Even a tighter tank shows her nipples. Her bra just won't stay there. I make her wear undershirts and even still it can be a problem. Is this normal? How can we fix this so she isn't flashing people.

[SammyGurl]

Are you talking "Nip Slips" or Nipples Showing Through the Material of the bra cup?

Nip slips, that's a bra cup that doesn't fit vary will. Unfortunately smaller cup sizes are prone to popping out. Getting fitted for a bra that fits properly can help to reduce the tendency for the cup to gap away from the breast. Smaller breasts for the most part are firmer and stay put while the cup may not.

Nipples Showing - some girls just have longer nipples that show through lightly padded bras. Trying a bra with thicker padding can help. Some can't wear real lacy bras because the friction makes things stick up and become visible. Again, that can be identified and helped with being fitted for a proper bra.

Almost every bra wearing girl has had one or boyh of these problems. I never realized I was giving my boyfriend a show right down my bra cups when I'd snuggle up next to him. Even in some not so low cut tops. He told me about it, I fixed it. I think he was a little disappointed though! = {

Third, your obsessing over something she virtually has little or no control over is not helping the situation. You have told her there is a wardrobe malfunction, now leave it be and allow her to fix it.

[Asker]

Why are people acting defensive, geez. I'm trying to help her. Her mom died so she doesn't know who to ask about this. She sure as hell won't go to her dad. No its not showing through the bra. The bra cups just push out and away from her chest. Like if she sits in a chair and puts her elbows on her legs and you are standing to the side of her u can see everything

[SammyGurl]

The reason girls are getting defensive is most of us would not appreciate being TOLD in no uncertain teems we are not dressing properly after the first time you told her. I mean I hope you didn't come across as strongly in person with her as it did with your question. That's probably the major irritant with most of the comments back at you. She is probably a bit sensitive as well as embarrassed, so when you firmly tell her to get a tee shirt on to cover up it may make her feel worse. Girls think a whole lot differently than guys, especially when we're flooded with horemones. In other words take it easy, your assertiveness may be doing more harm than good. She just needs to get a fitting where she is measured for correct band and cup fit. Then they can assist her in adjusting the bra correctly. Ill fitting bras are a common issue, especially with cheap off the rack bras.

[rawrityrawrrawr]

She might actually need a semi padded bra, or sports bras. the padding will keep that from happening and sports bra's can actually help with that too. hope she doesn't keep flashing lol. good luck!

[Asker]

Padded like a push up bra? I don't know much about bras lol she wears sports bras when she can but it looks weird when wearing a tank top or dress. I just didn't know if this was a common problem or what. It makes her super uncomfortable that it happens. Could she just be in between bra sizes?

[rawrityrawrrawr]

just padded. not to much push up unless she wants that look. honestly, my boobs are way to big and this happens to me. so i just wear padded bra's. but not a lot. and if wearing dresses, well duh you aren't gonna wear a sports bra withit silly! but yeh a sports bra or padded are good. and yes she could be. she should try on a c. if the piece in the middle of her bra, in between her boobs touches perfectly, then this will be a good fit.

[Asker]

Okay thanks :) one more thing. The bras she has are decent bras. They arnt cheap lol and they all have a bit of padding for push up reasons. She said its hard to find smaller sized bras without that kind if padding. Could that be the cause?

[rawrityrawrrawr]

it couldbe but probably not. but there are avutally normally, little places to take the padding out ofthe bra if she wanted to givet hat a shot

[Asker]

Alright I'll see what I can find her. Thank you very much for the help :)

[justbeinghonest]

You don't own her so you can't do anything about it

[Asker]

Calm your tits, she wants to fix it too.

[rawrityrawrrawr]

You really think he's doing this if she doesn't want it fixed? you my friend, are crazy.

[Asker]

Of course I don't want it happening. And I'm pretty sure most girls don't like randome guys seeing their chest.

[justbeinghonest]

She could wear better fitting bras and shirts if she really wanted to solve the problem

[Anonymous]

It sounds like she either needs a bigger cup size or a padded bra, maybe with underwire (can help with support and comfort but is uncomfortable to some).