so I'm a virgin, and I'm not sure whether or not I'm going to have sex yet, but girls, guys whatever, what do you think is the best position to lose your virginity to, you know without it hurting too much?
well you could do it in the typical missionary position or do it with you on top that way you can control it. you can control the speed and the depth and you could probably keep it from hurting that way since only you will know how it makes you feel. :)
I've always been told that its easier for a girl to lose it while in missionary and that's how I've always done it (not that I've taken a lot of "v cards"), but it does seem to make sense, if the girls on top she would be able to move at her own pace when she was ready. At the same time many girls aren't tough enough to be able to put themselves through that pain, and would rather a guy take control as long as he was gentle.
I think girl on top is best for the first time since you'll be in control of the pace how fast you want him to go in etc, if you want to stop at anytime. I remember my first time with my first love, started of missionary, than to girl on top than back to missionary. Personally I'm a wimp though when it comes to pain so it was easier missionary once we got started.