I have a higher libido than my boyfriend!!!?

[Anonymous]

Ugh, so we haven't had sec yet because we just simply haven't yet but we've done everything else, anyways, I always wanna do something sexual and when we aren't together I wanna sext, and I don't think he wants to as much as I, or at least not as frequently which is really gonna suck once we start having sex, ideally I like once a day he'll probably have me at 3-4 times a week, damn it. Anyways, I really love him so it doesn't really matter, but I honestly hope I'm wrong. But, if I am right, I need advice, girls, how do you deal with a guy with a lower sex drive than you? How do you deal with having a dominant sex drove? Or even guys? Do any of you have an insatiable partner, if so how do you come to that happy medium?

[slackercruster]

'Do any of you have an insatiable partner, if so how do you come to that happy medium?'

Goddamn... I wish! If I was blessed like this... I'd gladly try to work overtime to keep up!

If you can't get enuf sex at least he could eat you in the AM or give you a clit massage. Then sex at night. In between you can MB and he can suckle your nipples or finger you. You should be able to climax 3 times a day or 21 orgasms a week on this schedule... is that enuf of a compromise for ya darling?

If not then you must MB more, try to scale things back with the sex drive or get another lover.

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[Tdieseler]

I don't care if i get down-voted for this. I don't feel you have a high sex drive if you haven't had sex. Libido... yes.. that one you do have. and let me explain something to you, some guys usually don't want to talk about sex knowing full well it won't happen. Start having sex and watch His drive skyrocket. I've dated a lot of virgins and they always think they have higher sex drives, always talking the talk... i may have come off like i had lower because i usually wasn't interested in the after effects. Then eventually when they walked the walk... things changed and They Noticed!! Turns out that I had the higher drive the whole time lol

[Asker]

Good point, I'm not a virgin though lol, he isn't either, you are right though, I should wait to judge, but I'm only basing my assumptions over him jokingly saying 4 times a week is a lot of sex.

[kheserthorpe]

Someone needed to downvote so I did :D Half teasing but... If they're getting each other off, I think they have a pretty good idea what their preferred sexual frequency is. I doubt he'd like 2 bj a week, but sex 3 times a day.

[Asker]

Kheserthorpe, right? XD thank you

[Tdieseler]

4 times a week is a lot? never knew... lol.. thanks for the down vote @kheserthorpe , i did ask for it hehe

[brendaa]

My boyfriend has a low sex drive. in the beginning of our relationship he would want sex & at the time I didn't want to have sex, but now that we're 5 months into our relationship I've been craving sex and he tells me he's not ready now. Its funny how guys work. One minute they want you & you don't want them, then the next minute you want them & they tell you theyre not ready. -_-

[Asker]

So true.

[Marstalk]

Well his hormones might have adjusted or he found out about masturbation.

[Red_Dragon]

Yeah I like sex no more than 3 times a week. Not everyday. Though I don't consider myself as having low sex drive.

So really I guess even though I'm a guy I'm on the other side of the "medium".

My advice is to just accept it or not accept it. A couple of guys gave some ways to "force" him to have sex. I don't think you should do that. It's not a matter of just getting horny or not.

[Asker]

Yeah I understand. I think I'll just talk to him about it if it really begins to bother me. And damn, 3 times a week? I was trying not to come off as a total sex addict in my question, ideally once a day for me, but preferably twice a day everyday all week. XD

[Red_Dragon]

Hahahahaha.

[cavmanier]

Yeah contrary to the stereotype this can happen. I would ask him about his sex drive so you can get an idea of what to expect. Then decide if that will satisfy you.

[Klaatu51]

you just have higher sex drive than him which is less common. it happens to be the other way round most of the times

[bigbossatmdy]

you should persuade your bf to become libido. you should wear sexy dress. also your boyfriend need to eat foods which to have erect penis. as for me, if a girl have sexy body and dress. i always want to her to have sex.
if you don't mind, i want to ask a question. if you crave sex, had you ever try or imagine to have sex with other guys.

[Asker]

No, that's unthinkable. I am faithful and loyal to my boyfriend one hundred percent, and I'd die for him. Lol sorry.

[275153]

He may just not want to get hot and bothered when he can't finish.

[275153]

Oh, and our testosterone levels are highest in the am.

[singlebee]

ahhhh i want a girl just like you... i guess if you were mine then we would really match... hahaahhahhaha just saying...

[Asker]

XD lol

[gapminder]

Shit I wish I had a partner like you...

[NZDSTR]

That's low for a guy

[Insignis]

Gee I need someone like you. Ideally a man wouldn't reject his own woman, and vice versa. Have you tried grabbing his hand and guiding him while talking dirty? That might get him horny. And don't warn him beforehand, just do it.

[Jakethesnake93]

You sound like a really cool girlfriend

[Asker]

Well thank you (; XD