Ladies, how do I get a girl to like giving head?

[theironchef]

I have never had issues getting head in the past, but with my new girlfriend she rarely does it, and when she does she always gets irritated about it afterwards. Getting a blowjob is something that drives me insane and its a different pleasure than just having sex, and up until this point its something I have always had and now I'm realizing that I NEED IT! How can I make my girl more comfortable or even better yet get her to enjoy giving me head.

[beefpatrol]

The only thing I can say is that the difference between those that love it and those that hate it is state of mind. If she's the sort that thinks about sexual acts as procedures by which orgasms are generated, she probably doesn't like it and sees it as unnecessary. If she's the sort that just gets lost in the erotic primal hotness of it all and doesn't worry about the destination but instead milks every bit of enjoyment out of the ride for both of you, she probably loves it. I think the key is to allow her or show her how to be the sex gourmet instead of the sex calorie counter or whatever.

[theironchef]

Hmm... I do remember her saying "why can't we just have sex"

[Littletad]

Like the best answer said, it's a state of mind. Usually most girls who fall for a guy hard, don't even care about thinking it's "disgusting". They grow to love it, cause it's the man they have feelings for. But sometimes a girl just doesn't like it. I don't believe it should be a valid reason for letting someone go, or think of ultimatums. Not that you are, but it seems like you don't have any alternative, but to WANT to have it.

[theironchef]

Yea I don't plan on leaving her this girl is amazing

[justwannahavefun]

Sometimes it can depend on if you have issues with her spitting because it can taste REALLY bad. Also there are things you can eat that make it actually taste good! Some girls will also always have issues with it, some have had boyfriends pressure them, some just hate the taste and some think its sexist and makes them submissive. You could try going down on her first, make a big deal bout enjoying seeing her pleasure and she may return the favour and if that doesn't work just talk to her ask her why she doesn't like it and ask her if there is anything you can do to change that:D

[theironchef]

Yea I guess ill have to talk to her about it.. going down on her doesn't work, she's pretty much all around against the oral, she says she enjoys it but doesn't like to kiss me afterward so she doesn't want me doing it ( I guess she doesn't like vagina in her mouth ) and if I'm not performing oral on her I guess I'm not getting it back. =[

[justwannahavefun]

*sad face* lol, I guess that kinda sucks

[ivarei]

you can't make here enjoy it. a lot of girls really dislike it.

[theironchef]

The thing that sucks is that I really like this girl but can't get over my desire for getting oral