Who is more sexually frustrated? Virgins or non-virgins?

I was having a discussion with a mate who's not a virgin and she claims that she is more sexually frustrated than I am because she knows what she is missing. She last had sex 3 months ago and is absolutely craving sex at the moment. On the other hand, I have never had sex and I have not had sex in my 20 years of existence. Even though I really really want it I obviously don't know what sex is actually like. Who is more sexually frustrated? Those who have been sexually active in the past or those who have never been?
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  • Neither. It just depends on the person. I'm not a virgin and I don't get sexually frustrated. I can go as long as I need to without having sex, no big deal (and I have a relatively high sex drive but it's just not the most important thing to me). Similarly, when I was a virgin it wasn't a big deal either. I wasn't desperate to have sex, I didn't really care about it. I was content in waiting for the right person.

    Some people are capable of not getting "frustrated" while others aren't. Humans, in general, have needs and innate desires. We are sexual beings. However, some people (virgin or non-virgin) are more able to control those feelings and desires more than others, in my opinion. So, again, it just depends on the person.

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    • Well like a camel can go without water, you can go without sex @xhoneyxbeex 😉

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  • non virgins for sure, since they know what theyre not having. us virgins have no idea, so we essentially dont give a shit. BUT then again there r some virgins who just wanna have sex because "everyone else did it".

    non- virgin: "i haven't had sex in 2 months! I'm dying over here"
    me: dude/girl, get a hold of yourself, i haven't had sex in 20 years and I'm cool as a cucumber -.-

    virgin: EVERYONE has had sex, BUT me. i'm seriously just gonna sleep with the next guy that i see.
    me: hey look, it's that guy who won the spelling bee!

  • No one is more or less than the other. There is reason for both people to be sexually frustrated, in the eyes of a virgin its like well at least youve had it. And to someone whos a non virgin but hasn't had a lay in a while would know what theyre missing.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I would say a non-virgin on an extended dry spell would be more frustrated but it really depends on the person. Most virgins I know were only frustrated about their lack of action after a certain age (early 20s and such. I think virgins past 30 have already stopped caring (i. e. attained "Wizard" status).

  • Both can be equally frustrated simply because your body demand's it whether you have had it or not. It's science and not something anyone can easily avoid.

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  • Non virgins are more frustrated because they actually know what they are missing... virgins don't have a clue

  • Virgins are much more frustrated sexually than non virgins, and right behind the virgins are the celibate cuckolds. Why? Because the hottest, sexiest woman in the world is the one you're spending your time with but can never have.

  • I think it just depends on the individual's horny level and self-control. regardless of virgin or not.

  • i would say non virgins

  • i would say virgins

  • Non virgins

    Virgins have no idea what they're missing. They can imagine it, but they don't know