Single Moms and sex?

[Anonymous]

I am not saying this is fair but I've heard guys saying that single mom's are an easy lay and you can get them to be slutty. Is it true that single mom's have more promiscuous sex? Because they want more but have sex to get the guy to stay? A guy I work with is 45. He told me it is easier to sleep with a single mom or divorcee quicker and more free sex. He targets these ladies and degrade them in bed; is this normal? He says they are all about it. He just dated and slept with a single mom and had sex in her house; she didn't care that the kids were there (14 and 11). He put it up her as*, talked dirty etc., can someone explain? I am not saying that they are naturally slutty but I feel that they think they need to be compliant and do what the guy says/let him do whatever, so he'll stay with her. I am just curious and being honest, so please answer honestly.

[Mistywrites]

Okay, you want honest . . . here it is! You cannot be serious right? Let's first start by addressing the "desperate" for a man part! Let's name a few divorced or single moms that everybody would know and you tell me if they look "desperate for a man to stay" to you:

Angelina Jolie: she is NOT in fact married, she is both a single mother and has been divorced . .. a few times, and if she and Mr. Pitt split, then se will really be a very single mom.

Heidi Klum: divorced and was a single mom until she remarried.

Carmen Electra: divorced . .. Are you getting the picture yet? Why haven't you asked about whether or not "Divorced Men" or "Single Dads" are "desperate for a woman to stay" with them or will allow themselves to be degraded in bed or not. What does being married before or having had children have to do with being slutty or desperate? I'll tell you. . . NOTHING! If a woman is promiscuous, she will have this tendency whether she has had kids or ever had a husband or not. Some single mothers actually abstain from sex until they are committed or remarried again to a respectable man they can trust (unlike your idiot friend)! Only an insecure woman will allow herself to be used and abused by anyone! There are so many gorgeous MILF's who's lives are centered around their children and their careers, and believe it or not, they get married and have sex and get horny, just like women who have never had kids or a spouse. Your friend is going to be single for a long time, with his sick attitude, and you will be to if you align your opinions about single or divorced women around his. Welcome to reality, where 50 to 60% of all Male and Female marriages(many with kids involved) end in divorce. You are basically asking this question of half the population, by the way.

[modeve]

Don't you realise that single moms needs physical satisfaction?

[boi818]

Well.. I do believe that women become more open to sex, whether it be from having sex, having kids, or as they get older. Not all women do of course, but it's just like girls that drink or smoke, you can also say they tend to be easier...

I think it all depends on a woman's "openness"...

my gf.. is a 23 year old mother, and it took me 3 months to finally do things with her..

I've been with other girls that were older or had kids or smoked, drank.. and one thing about them is that they weren't as uptight as others..

[Enishi]

I'm not going to say it's normal or common, but it was unfortunately the case in my house. -_-

[Asker]

What do you mean? your mom brought guys home?

[Enishi]

Oh yeah. Whenever she did, I'd go to bed early so I could turn my tv on or something and not hear anything, but I'd have to clean up around first, and they were NOT quiet OR patient, so I'd usually wind up having to listen to it until I could get back to my bedroom and volume + the hell out of the tv.

[Asker]

Yeah I feel that the guys get a kick out of being heard and think they can be as loud and do whatever in bed, sorry to hear that

[Enishi]

Yeah. Washing goddamn dishes while listening to your mom f*** some hairy Canadian dude who wears cowboy hats (note; I do not live in texas) suck ass. It's funnier now that I type it that way, but it sucked ass at the time.

[Sarahplus2]

i have that especially when on a first date. sometimes I don't have sex for weeks or months. I work two jobs and got children. Sometimes I need to get my groove on, however many times the first date fizzles out if they are expecting sex. I have shot down guys who want to go back to their house for sex. I have been asked on dates if I want to go back to my house and "fuck" .

[oncpl]

To some extent it is correct. My first sex partner was a lady older than me. She was separated from husband and didn't have sex for about four years. She was our neighbor. One day while I was alone, she came and after a few minutes, sat too close that I could feel her body heat. Talking gradually took turn of sex. She asked if I had sex with any girl? Hearing my reply in NO, she touched my cock and asked if it didn't desire? I said that so far I have not had sex. In short, after about half an hour, she was kissing me and playing with my cock. Then we were both nude. She practically taught me how to fuck. She would come to my house as and when found me alone and we had great sex.
The second one was a divorcee. Great body, sexy talk, dirty words and openly said she desired sex. She was more explicit, dirty in talk and open in suggesting positions. She was mom of two years kid.
So I feel that singlr moms, if deprived of sex, are excellent partners.

[prosmind]

I have been having sex with single mom, rather she was my first sex partner. She was surprisingly open and once admitted that she no more desired to be married because being single she was free to have sex with multiple guys.