Im not sure if im bleeding from my butthole after trying anal sex. What should I do? Im only 13 and im afraid to tell my Father?

On Friday i went out with my gals and i met this guy. He was cute and 12 years old. I like younger boys dont judge me!!! Anyway he wanted to try anal sex and i heard from my sister it was good and fun, but it hurt and now i cannot sit down. What should i do?
Should i sleep with him again?
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  • Okay so your 12, and your having sex, anal? My parents wouldn't even let me out of the house at 12 going out with some boy and having sex. You young kids, just having sex for no reason and don't know how to keep your legs closed. That's stupid that's what that is, do you not have any common sense? Keep your legs closed then maybe ur behind wouldn't have been bleeding. You young kids are way to young to be having sex. Play board games or something, lord have mercy. Do you want to take care of a baby for the rest of your life? And watch your friends graduate and go to college while you are home alone taking care of a baby for the rest of your teen years. Your supposed to wait till you are in high school or married to be having sex. You are supposed to save it for the person you are marrying or however your parents taught you. Focus on your studies, and ur schoolwork and ur books of course. Sex right now should not be in your head. I mean seriously, I'm 18 and even I know better. Know how to keep your legs closed. Society these days, teaching young women that's cool to have sex. Smh. I'm 18 and I'm a virgin and I am waiting till marriage for the right person of course. If I was to have any kid of sex at 12 years old my parents would kill me and I'd probably be kicked out of the house.

  • How about waiting until you're mature and old enough to have sex at all?
    There's a start.
    If not then honestly i dont even know. Pull yourself together you don't need that shit yet
    I'm 16 and I am a virgin, I've kissed boys but thats all. There's no need or that

  • You deserve having a sore butthole.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Your only 13 you shouldn't be even have srx let alone anal however it possible you could very well cause bleed much like like losing your virginty can cause bleeding so can anal the more you do anal the less painful it will be I recomend wait till your at least 16 but anyway it will most likely stop bleeding your not gonna die however if it still bleeding like è days later go to a nurse it will be sore for a couple days again I'll say it again wait till you are older it will probably hurt more because the dude will actually be in puberty or through it

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  • Obvious troll is obvious.

  • this is ridiculous how and why would you do that

  • Ur way to young to be having sex like that. And u don't just meet someone and have sex, especially at that age. It's wrong.

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    see this cat?
    that man whispered this question in his ear...

  • Kids today. Clean your room!

    • Hahahahahahaha

  • wait wot? Teens do this since 12 now? What world do we live in... But you should tell someone as bleeding can lead to a more serious disease.

  • TROLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

  • Another inane question.

  • You are 13 and he is 12? You shouldn't even be having any kind of sex much less anal.

    It isn't legal.

    If it keeps bleeding you're gonna have to tell your dad so you can go to the doctor, but most likely he just tore something and it'll heal.

    Just don't do it again.

    • I did enjoy it though. I thought sex was something to be enjoyed?

    • It is, but not until you are older (and in my opinion married to be honest)

  • Tell your mom.

    • I can't tell my mum she passed away when i was young and i live with my dad. He wouldn't understand he still treats me like im 4!

    • Then you'll ave to confess to daddy. No choice.

  • Oh my!! 💆🙈

  • Stupidest thing I've ever heard or read in my entire life and I've seen some weird shit

  • i hope im not too late. Stop growing up so fast and watch dora. If you won't confess then deal with the consequences.

  • Fuck is wrong with you? Fucking at 13 years old smh.. Go play outside or some shit

  • Make sure you use plenty of lube and go SLOW.

  • Omg.. 13 years old? My sis is 9, and I'm already worried about her! Seriously? 13? Is that what 13 years old girls think about now… OMG!! Im totally shocked…

    • It's weird because even though I became fertile at 13 I wasn't really interested in sexuality until waaaaaay later.

  • You busted a blood vessel. It will heal in a couple of days. Go clean your room.

  • It could easily just be a tear at the opening, if it's not painful I wouldn't worry about it, but if you do decide to have anal sex with him again make sure to use lube and make sure it's not as rough.

  • you better be careful what you put on the Internet, you want the police to get wind of what your say?

  • C) Don't do it... it's not normal. Vaginal is the only real sex, but you should wait for the right guy.

    • She should wait for the right age (she's ONLY 13!) and the right guy.

    • @jacquesvol Yes, that's what I meant.

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