Does anyone have a good virginity story, one that ended well?

So, ok I lost my virginity when I was fourteen. Yes I know I was extremely young but it was decision I made and I don't regret it for a second. It was, interesting to say the least, I had always said to myself as soon as I knew about sex and my mum decided to have the "talk" with me that I would only lose my virginity with someone unless I loved them, respected them, trusted them and they felt the same for me. I lost it to one of my closet friends and for the purpose of this I think I shall call him Fred. Well my best friends like to describe the event of when I lost my virginity as the raping session. I wasn't actually raped. We were lying down and things had begun to get hot and heavy Fred was about to penetrate me when I put my hands against his shoulders and said "No" he stopped like the gentleman he is and once I had calmed down he went to go again, this time instead of shouting no I chose to proceed in saying "Yes, No, No, Yes, Yes, No, Yes" So while I was rambling Fred decided that I was going to keep rambling and he would help me by proceeding in penetrating me at which point I bit him for the sheer pain he caused me for that second or two. (My friend Sheryl is a lesbian and told me the reason she hated sex with men so much (before she figured she was a lesbian) was that she felt like guys were just pounding into her and abusing her body. Bless her soul she is very sensitive.) I figured out what she meant for the first two minutes. It was a variety of him thrusting and panting and then he let out a big groan and that was that. All this time I had expected this wonderful rush of passion and ripping of clothes and trembling orgasms. What I got was pain, and a variety of thrusting movements that bruised my hips. Does anyone have good first times, or am I just the one person on this earth who has ridiculous sex and is contemplating giving it all up and buying herself a very large and monstrous toy?
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  • I was 25. It was my birthday. I'd been seeing my boyfriend for about a year. I didn't start out intending to have sex, but I must admit that I had thought about it. I had wanted him for a while, but I was raised to wait for marriage.

    My boyfriend said he had a very special birthday present for me, so we went to his house.

    He had mentioned to me a few times that he had an urge to make love to me, but that he respected my feelings enough not to pursue it. I had felt the urge too, but I had always managed not to succumb to it. Somehow, this day felt different, though I didn't realize why.

    He started to make small, subtle advances and I barely noticed. Or maybe I didn't want to notice. The wet kisses passed unnoticed. He mentioned again that he had been thinking a lot about making love to me lately. Gradually, the advances got more direct and forward.

    Somewhere along the line, I started to say no and it came out OK. That's when I knew it was time. I was surprised, but I knew I was ready, due to his persistence. So I gave in. I was scared, nervous, uncomfortable, but exhilarated, happy, excited, and curious. I actually found myself looking forward to it. I was overwhelmed by the sheer pleasure and the romantic moment.

    I sent him out of the room, then I stripped my way up the stairs, leaving a boot at the foot of the stairs, another boot a couple of steps up, my dress a couple of steps after that, my pantyhose a step up from there, my bra at the top of the stairs, and my panties hanging on the doorknob of the bedroom.

    I waited completely naked on the bed, wrapped in a sheet. He quickly stripped down to his undies and climbed on the bed next to me. I was tingling. After a little foreplay, I took his underpants off. Then we curled up and gave each other oral simultaneously. We did that for about half an hour.

    Then I rolled over on my back and he went inside. We had intercourse for quite a long time. He was very good, and he told me he enjoyed it too. I had two or three orgasms and he came too. It was excellent! He was very good! It was passionate and romantic, about as good as

  • My Mother told me she was 15 when she lost hers (We are really close) so I aimed for that age to wait for sex. I hit puberty at the young age of 11 and was pretty much thinking about sex all the time and when I could finally lose my virginity. My first real boyfriend I knew I wanted to give myself to him. My first time we great. I had no pain and the guy I did it with was awesome. I will always remember it lasted 18 minutes. And it was my birthday present to him. The sex made us last 5 years.

    It's nothing I regret. :)

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  • You're surprised? Turning women from ladies into sex objects that all compete with each other in who gets used by the most men was the whole point of the "sexual liberation". Maybe you didn't get the memo but the sexes are equal now, so you just have to cut the yammering and take it like a man.

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