I bleed when my boyfriend fingers me?

[Anonymous]

Alright, so I've bled before with my boyfriend when he fingered me. thing is, I dont feel it when im hurt. it feels good and I love it when it's rough. I can only reach climas this way. So we tried gentler and I didn't bleed, but it took me too long to cum. and he cut his fingernails too, and they look clean and neat and everything. but it still happened. What could I do? I don't bleed too much but it's annoying because I only seem to get cut when he does it hard but I like it hard and I've told him this, so it's my fault. he's doing everything he can. Are there any ways of g spot stimulation I should try? right now he just goes in and out, kind of like actual intercourse which is what I have asked him to do (but him and I have decided not to go that far yet to sex) so fingering is all I have. How do you girls like to be fingered? I was thinking of maybe doing more oral and having him work on those skills to get me off. but for now I'm not sure what to do about the fingering.

[katiesmuff]

Have him trim and file smooth his finger nails. Number one reason a girl bleeds when getting fingered (especially rough) is longer jagged nails. The tissue of the vaginal wall is very thin and easily torn.

[Bloodfaith]

I personally hate fingering and never let my boyfriend do it. Never got much pleasure out of it and it reminds me of the doctor lol

Oral and clit stimulation work wonders for me.

[Asker]

I've heard that a lot so ill talk to him about clit stimulation :) haha

[luvpudding]

I've sometimes had the same problem, It is a little better when she goes down on me while fingering.. and I cum harder,

[Asker]

okay ill try that with my boyfriend :) i dont make him go down on me much but im sure if i help him with his skills he can please me right haha. i guess its different knowing what you want orally because you can figure out what you like beforehand using your fingers

[thewanderingme]

see a gynecologist. it could be something serious.

[Asker]

She said I was just cutting my vaginal wall, because it heals within about a day. but if it itches or continues then to go back.