My Girlfriend likes giving me head, but what can I do in return?

[joesepy]

About 3 months ago I expressed an interest in head. A half a month latter she went down on me. As of now we have been going out for 9 months, and she has just started letting me finger her from outside her pants. She won't tell me what she wants me to do because she wants it to be a surprise to her. If she knows its coming she won't be nearly as thrilled. She will not let me finger her, and doesn't want head in return. She also doesn't want to watch porn, she said it would be weird. So what can I do in return for head? I don't want to be the only one getting off in this relationship.

[Anonymous]

Not watching porn with her isn't the end of the world. Take it slow. I don't know about most girls but I think some like their nipples and tits played with I love doing it, you can also kiss and lick her from head to toe if in fact she will allow you to see her naked, and if he does who knows that might be a chance to finger her for a total surprise she might like, then again has she given a specific reason as to why she won't let you finger her? You could always try spanking some get pleasure out of that, could always give her a massage, or just down right ask her what gives her pleasure but you should probably expect her to not give a reason, perhaps something happened to her when she was much younger and that could be why she only wants to give and not recieve.

[juice]

Things I would suggest in return

1. Be very romantic in return

2. Give her a massage

3. Kiss her on her neck more than usually

4. Gently touch the areas around her vagina

5. Try the 69

6. Try different positions

those I can think off the top of my head

[Deeplove55]

Rub her down there as you softly kiss her neck. Do this for a while, tease a bit with your kisses but keep rubbing her and make sure you reach down in her pants and rub her clit soft for a long time. Get her aroused to where she is so into it her eyes are closed then try to make your way down kissing her stomach. Kind of pull down her panties more as your caress her breasts. Then. Surprise her quickly to giving her great head, lick that click good, stay on it. It would b hard for her to stop you since she did not expect it. You got to b smooth about leading up to this. You can do it. At least try it and see if it works. Good luck!

[Anonymous]

She obviously don't want you to surprise her if she won't let you do anything like there's nothing you can surprise her with! 9 months and not even a bit of fingering omg I'm actually shocked you should be having sex by now fair play to you you must really love her

[ppfxxx]

To be honest mate if she won't let you do anything that would get her off then she's not worried about it and it's going to be pretty hard to surprise her. It's good that you want to please her but she's obviously not ready top go further so lie back and enjoy the ride until she is.

[MangoMooMoo]

Good point. =]