How to stretch my hymen to make it bigger?

[Anonymous]

I'm not interested in having sex but I've always been frustrated that I can't use tampons. Here lately I've gotten serious about being able to use tampons (because pads really suck), so I took a close look down there and I discovered that the hole going up into my vagina is very small. My hymen is covering most of it. It's a normal round hole BUT it's really small. I think I may have a microperforate hymen (which is basically when it covers most of the opening of your vagina but is just big enough for your period to come out), I'm not sure though. I really would like to stretch my hymen open enough to fit a tampon in. I can fit the very tip of my pinky finger in (and it doesn't hurt) but that's about it, I haven't really tried to go much deeper. What can I do to open up my hymen more? I don't want to "pop" it or anything because like I said I'm not even planning on being sexually active for a long time, I just want a tampon to fit up there and be able to come out comfortably.

[Anonymous]

My best advice would be to talk to your mother, your doctor, or another older woman you trust.
If it were me, I'd just shove it up there regardless of pain. If you rip your hymen it's not that big of a deal. Most girls end up tearing it naturally before they lose their virginity anyway, through things such as horse back riding or bike riding (believe it or not)
It's not going to make your first time any less special. That I can promise. Pads suck, tampons are more convenient, and sonething needs to happen.

[Anonymous]

Maybe keep trying with your finger, slowly and incrementally stretch it to the sides, or just "do it" but in a none creepy, depressing way, as in enjoying the procedure during. Another suggestion would be for you to see a gynaecologist.

[Jαspεr]

You don't need to have sex to break your hymen you know :)

[Onepiecefan2000]

I wanna know the same thing I want it bigger!

[Ordinary_Ass22]

Try using some Dick in it

[Asker]

you obviously didn't read anything but the question. go away please and thanks.

[Ordinary_Ass22]

Dildo will work

[Asker]

i can't even fit a TAMPON. how do you think that would work?

[Ordinary_Ass22]

Go to a gynecologist. She will help you

[Anonymous]

A cucumber should work.

[Anonymous]

u can use tampons