When a girl starts shaking during sex?

My body shakes during sex and since i've never had orgasm before I met my current boyfriend, i'm not sure how to stop or control it. I'm embarrased whenever my body shakes and whenever it happens, he stops thrusting, pulls his penis out of me and sometimes he pins me down until it stops. I feel like maybe, this turns him off. Have you ever had a partner like me? Or girls do you know how to stop it or how to control it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • How bad is the shaking and in what spots? If its your legs then it could be you're closer to orgasm. Also if you've never had an orgasm and you're about to but you feel like you have to pee then don't cause that could be a sign you're about to squirt. Just don't gush everywhere if you're like on a matress xD

  • If I get extremely nervous about something my body will shake, and it's something I cannot control.

    It wouldn't turn me off, I would make sure you are okay and if you wanted to stop, but it wouldn't be a turn off.

    • I always shake because I get nervous af and then when he gets down on me it gets worst because I’m super sensitive but I don’t know if it’s a good sign

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  • OMG this happens to me, so I’ve never had intercourse but during oral sex when my SO is on my clit I start to shake uncontrollably and he grabs my thighs even harder so I can’t leave his mouth and it’s really awesome but I’m selfconscious of my shaking and I don’t know if it is hot or a turndown

  • i get this often when i orgasm, its so intense that i shake a lot and grab onto my bf tightly, he really likes my reaction but is concerned so he keeps kissing and cuddling me until it stops, i'm not sure if its rare or not but i like it :3

  • It's completely normal. It just means your body is having a good time too. I don't think you can actually stop it or control it. It's a natural reaction that just happens.

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  • I sometimes shake, but it's because my body is responding to the orgasm. It's nothing to be ashamed of.

  • No I never had any partner like this, It'll surely make me worried about what happened to her. Instant turn-off.

  • Don't try to stop it, it's your body's reaction to the pleasure that you are feeling.
    It is hot to know that I can do that to a woman.
    I strive to pleasure a girl so that she cums hard.
    You can reassure him that you are enjoying it, and if you want it, ask him to keep thrusting while you cum.
    While you are quivering, moan how good it feels.

  • My ex used to shake when she had big orgasms, then squirt. it was awesome.

  • That probably means you are doing something right, haha.

  • You are having a orgasm tell him too keep it in it you might have a squirting orgasm then