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I want to look very sexy, but I'm afraid of looking slutty... (pic included)

I mean I have a nice little body. I'm 32A 24 34

I'm not bombshell well this will give you an idea.

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I'm only 5' so very petite.

I want to walk down the street and turn heads without people whispering that I must be easy... cause I'm not...

So how much should I show? Is low cut shirts and short skirts too much? Should I always just do one or the other?

If I wear boots with a skirt does this look too trashy?

Any and all help would be nice..

Guys do you like girls hair down, half way up, all the way up?

What do you love to see women wear?
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  • Best answer attempt here so bear with me:

    One Word: WOW!. And I'm not talking about the video game World of War-craft. First off I may be a little biased because I love Red's. They are actually in this year, if you didn't already know by now. Here's the thing though, I was into reds even before they were "in". And no I don't care for the "Strawberry-Blond" look some girls have. I like your shade of Red. Strawberry just doesn't cut it for me.

    Enough of the hair color thing, got a little distracted. Aside from that, you are absolutely stunning, in my opinion. "Your face" ("Pepper" song, check it out if you like Caribbean music) is a face type, I have been waiting to see for a while now. Hard to tell, but looks like you have brown eyes. Oh! And the smile, flashing those pearly whites.

    I have one question, you have a great long pair of legs, but you're only 5'. How is this possible. A woman I know has the same length you have in her legs, except probably just a few more inches (hers are 41 1/2"), but she's a lot taller than you; 5'11". I'm just curious as to how that happened.

    Ok!, Ok! So I haven't actually answered the question. I'm done complimenting you. Had to get that off my chest.

    As far as the question goes: And this goes out to all girls who happen to read this answer. All guys are different, not every one of us likes/does the same thing. So stop generalizing. Looking sexy, but not smutty can be very difficult as dressing sexy tends to put a man's mind in the gutter. So I get you, I mean you don't want guys looking at you and saying "Oh, well I'd f*** her then leave the next morning". Trick is though is a line that most people know, and that's: "less is more" nobody ever really understands this till some question like this pops up. Basically what it's saying is the less skin you show (while still showing some skin) is much more attractive then one who how do you say "lets it all hang out". The ones who do that are basically saying "come get me, I'm easy and willing". Though low cut shirts and short skirts do look good on the occasion, they're not really good for I guess you could say, meeting someone for the first time. It's kind of like it shows that you don't really respect your body enough and many men (the good ones) don't find that attractive.

    Skirts- Tend to show a lot of leg, even though you have the legs for them, it's all in how much you want to show.

    Dresses- Depending on the look of it, is dependent on how much you're willing to show off, I overheard a girl saying today that her friend doesn't like Homecoming dresses with no back to them, cause she doesn't think he back is attractive.

    Shorts- Still a bit dicey, depending on in the name, how "short" they are and how much you want to show

    Pants (any kind, exception of Capri)- probably don't show enough, I wonder what kind of stares you'd get with Capri's, haha

    Shirts with plunging necklines- probably not a good idea, as it shows a bit more, maybe like a t-shirt collar?

  • What do you love to see women wear?

    Nude is my favorite, but that is not practical.:)

    Guys do you like girls hair down

    I do. Long strait hair is my choice, but I'm not a fan of redheads, solely a personality thing. You look spectacular.

    does this look too trashy?

    You know what is really too much. For the most part it will be other females who will think something is trashy, and not because it is, but rather because they don't have the body to wear it. If it feels good, and you like it, wear it. I can tell you wouldn't wear anything that was really trashy. You look and seem too classy for that.

    So how much should I show?

    You show as much as you feel comfortable with, and vary your look. You don't want to always look one way, that's boring. Guys will like what you choose to show and why give any consideration too what small minded jealous women think?

    By the way, your listed measurements, 32A 24 34 are perfect. I do not care for breasts any larger than those and I have always leaned towards short women. My wife is 4 11. I don't know if that link is you or a similar example, but she is beautiful. :)

    Wear what YOU like and add self confidence and you will always turn heads. :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • If you're showing off the girls, cover up on the bottom

    If you're showing off the legs, cover up on top

    It also depends on the weather and event.

    But honestly sexiness is shown by confidence and the way you carry yourself.

  • whats up with the pics with you bent over in your underwear? I would take those down if you are giving people links to ur photobucket.

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  • I love a girl who wears what SHE wants to wear and feels sexy doing it.

    That's the best answer I can give you.

    It's all about confidence. If you feel confident wearing short skirts and low cut tops, I will sense this and it will be a turn on.

  • I agree with dave216 that what YOU feel best in that gives you confidence is going to give you the best results.

    Typically the classic looks do it for me. I don't think that you need to show much, just enough. A skirt is good on its own, doesn't have to be trashy short. Simple v, scoop, or camisole shirts are very attractive without giving the wrong impression.

    Here are a couple examples:

    Casual dress: link and link

    Everyday - cute tee, fitting jeans: link and link

    Simple camisole - link

    Typically hair down or simple ponytail works for me.

  • I like what I see.

  • Ran out of room, didn't realize I had written so much:

    Skirts with the boots look- It CAN be viewed as smutty...If not worn the right way (look up good ideas on how to pull this look off and still look sexy)

    As far as hairstyle, I know with me I like to see women with long straight down dark red hair. But many men do prefer up, or maybe even the "sporty"- ponytail, look.

    All got to do with what guy you're going after really, like I said, all men are different, even if you do get the "right" outfit, you'll occasionally get the guy who will look at it in complete disgust. That's what's great about music is that everyone enjoys it yet...We all have our own favorite genre.

    Anyway, I'm not sure if this is best answer worthy but I gave it my best shot. Hope it helps, and good luck with it.

    iwbym

    • P.S. cliche but, In the end, just do what feels most comfortable, honestly

  • i LOVE to see women weah whatever makes them comfortable, and if that means she is out in jeans and a jerzee then so be it. if I am on a date and she isn't comfortable then the date could be a little uneasy cause she thought she had to dress up for me. as faras people whispering, well people are going to do that anyway regardless of whom the person is. in your case (after seeing your pic) I would say they are whispering because they are jealous. I believe you are a very beautiful woman and you should wear what you want. and if guys aren't noticing you then shoot me a PM and we will talk.

    • Aw, I usually wear jeans, tank top, and converse and I'm comfortable. But I don't ever really have guys hit on me.. Like guys will hit on my friends around me and they flirt if I start it.. but I just feel like guys don't think I'm hot. I am very confident in my skin and I love to go out and have fun, but no one ever makes a move on me.

    • Personally, I wouldn't hit on you either because I think you are out of my league. in other words, you are to hot me me to waste my time to only be rejected. I don't think that it is anything wrong you are doing. guys sometimes go after the girl they think the can have sex with the fastest and may be viewing your friends as slutty looking. I don't think based on what you said that you want guys to think that about you.

  • I can't believe that you have a problem getting attention. Great body, really sharp hair, and beautiful face... and it looks like really pretty eyes as well.

    You certainly should avoid looking trashy... no need to do that to get attention. But there's nothing wrong with boots and a skirt... that can be a good look, particularly for fall.

  • ur very pretty already :)

  • You're sexy, and don't look slutty in that pic.

  • You look smokin' hot. Way to go. Sexy and elegant, girly.😍

  • wear what's comfortable... in my opinion can't go wrong with a short skirt tho

    Amazing legs btw

  • I think I just got sunburned

  • I wouldn't be surprised if you turn heads already!

  • One word: WOW. You don't even need to be asking that question. You're beautiful. Period. Whoever thinks you look like a slut is an idiot. I think your absolutely gorgeous.

  • Oh. You're a ginger. Good luck with that.

    • Is that a bad thing? What's wrong with being a ginger?

    • This guys just a jerk, a lot of people make fun of gingers. the only thing about being a ginger is that people are more likely to judge your looks before they actually know you.

  • Dress the way you want, not because you care what other people think of you. Sure there's fashion "tips" to express a slutty outfit, but wear what you find cute/attractive whatever and not because people will think ur easy. let them find out on their own. Besides, if they never get to know you, who gives a sh*t, they are missing out

  • Wow. How can I get a girl like you? Can I even get a girl like you?

    • What do you mean by that? Do you like petite women? Ha, ha. Umm.. You didn't answer my question..

    • I think you'd look fine anyway. Tall boots or high heal straps with jeans and a cute shirt might look great are you. You seem like a nice girl. And I like nice girls.

    • That's kind of the look I was thinking of rolling out for the winter. Oh no, I'm meaner than sh*t.

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