So in other words you are a straight person, that doesn't want to sleep with a woman, that claims to be a guy. There is nothing wrong with that. You should feel free to be attracted to anyone you want to be attracted to, for any reason without being judged for it. You should never allow yourself into being shamed into dating someone you don't want to date.
I am tired of people trying to label everything as a phobia, if we don't openly accept the way they want to define things like gender. It is a way to make it look like anyone that disagrees with them has a disease, so they can win the argument by shaming the other person. It makes as much sense as telling people that don't think Pluto is a real planet has some sort of phobia. it is just a way of manipulating other people.
People don't have to agree with everyone else on everything. If someone doesn't feel comfortable having sex with a transgender, they have as much right to feel that way without being judged for it, as the transgender has to feel the way they do. To tell someone they should be ashamed for not wanting to have sex with people of a certain group, is as wrong as a shaming someone for wanting to have sex with people of a certain group.3 1 1 3Trans men are MEN. Even if they do not have a penis, they deserve to be respected as their actual gender. Thinking of Trans men as anything other than men is transphobic. Being attracted to trans men or not is not.
Wrong. Calling someone phobic because they don't agree with your definition, is just a why to shame people so that you can make them look bad. It is a shitty way for you to try and win an argument. Other people are entitled to their own beliefs, and if that upsets you, then that is just too bad.
Sure you are entitled to your beliefs, but they are Transphobic nonetheless. Trans people are the one who know what it is like to be Trans, therefore they are the ones who get to define their experiences and what is discriminatory to their identities. Not Cis gendered people, AKA you and me and everyone not Trans.
Well, no. You aren't transphob. You are simply used to men having dicks.
And if the coincidence arises that you meet a transmale and start to like him but you have problems due to the fact that he isn't completely through with surgery and therefore has no or only a micropenis just be honest in a appropriate way. Guess what, he would be greatful to know what the real problem is and not feel denied because he as transmale is "abnormal".0 0 0 0
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I think that "phobic" people are those who have a deeper problem with transgender people (They are not comfortable around them), just like when someone who has arachnophobia hates spiders and doesn't want to be anywhere close to them (I know it's not a best example, I'm aware of what a real phobia is).
I don't believe that you are transphobic, and it's a perfect reasonable thing to not like someone, like if a lesbian girl liked you but you're not lesbian, you're not homophobic for rejecting her (politely).1 3 0 0If you don't like it, its fine. You won't get a fine or community service for disliking. You're over intellectualizing over this agony of yours. Chill and enjoy the roses in your garden.
0 0 0 0That's not transphobic.
Just because you aren't attracted to a certain type of sexuality doesn't mean you are transphobic/homophobic/biphobic/whatever0 0 0 0
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3 8It's not transphobic.
I know genitals aren't suppose to be a big deal but they kind of are.
You not a monster if you want to feel a real throbbing penis, no one would blame you if a silicon strapon for the rest of your life isn't good enough.0 0 0 0Are you kidding? You are saying you don't want to be with a girl who wants to be a man but still has a vagina? You just like your men dick. thats really not anything to be that worried about
3 3 0 2She just wants that mushroom tip :'')
Trans men are MEN. Treating them as anything other than men is transphobic.
@shessoheavy - so because QA wants her men to have a penis, she's transphobic? That's the dumbest shit I've heard all day. I'll call a trans woman a girl and be polite, but no way would I suck a dick.
It just means you're a normal heterosexual woman not a trans phobic. :T
0 1 0 0No, its not transphobic. As long as you're supportive to them, its fine, theyre not entitled to you dating them
0 0 0 0"X-phobia" is never based on your attraction to the subject.
2 0 0 0No. It's literally just preference.
0 0 0 0I think you are putting too much thought into it. You don't need to apologize for liking normal wangs.
1 0 0 0Attraction is not something you can control. If you still respect them as human beings, you're not being a bigot of any sort.
0 0 0 0You are not transphobic. Is Ok if you don't like to sleep with people with vaginas. However trans men are still men and no women. Most of them are straight, married, have kids, jobs...
0 0 0 0No, it's not transphobic. It's a sexual preference and you can't help that.
0 0 0 0Nope you're not trans-phobic for not wanting to sleep with a trans man. Someone is transphobic if they hate trans people for being trans.
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