Is A B-Cup Too Small?

I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17.Well,i wear a 34B Bra Cup size and I'm 5'3,115 lbs.Well,he always makes comments and jokes about my boobs being too small and he's even made comments that I should get breast implants):What do I do? And don't tell me to tell him to get a bigger penis or anything like that,i haven't even seen it
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  • I agree with loverorbest friend. Honestly, though, the first advice I can give you is get rid of that guy. He's obviously degrading you, and it's not worth your time to build a relationship with a total d***. I have a's, barely. I had aa's for a long time and it was very frustrating; I would love to have b's! but I still understand your frustration. I think about my own bust size a lot. however, there are guys out there who actually prefer small breasts. I've dated one. My current boyfriend, at least I'm PRETTY sure, prefers big breasts (like c+). But he still likes my 34a's. He said, jusst today actually as it casually came up in our conversation, that they "look nice" or something like that, and basically he conveyed that they suited my body. I think that guys in general just like breasts. But there are some who don't like small ones at all. It's an individual preference. I'm about 5'3, 118lbs/I work out a lot. you seem like you probably have a similar body type to mine. For most guys, I'm pretty sure that's not all they care about physically, it's the body as a whole. and physical attraction isn' t all that matters anyway. and if that IS all a guy cares about, then that's not a guy you should want to be with. because that makes him an a**.

    Not to sound mean, but as long as you're not overweight (and based on what you've said one can conclude that you're in good shape) and as long you're not dating a guy that's obsessed/only happy with big breasts, then you'll be fine. because you're body is relatively proportional.

  • I have 34B cup breast, I am 5" and I weigh 113 pounds... I have puffy nipples and conical breast, my boyfriend LOVES my breast! He not only hates big boobs (because of how they sag) , but he hates fake women... My boyfriend and many other people consider my breast to be medium... 34B was the ideal and average breast size before plastic surgery and obesity became a thing. Love yourself, and any guy that doesn't appreciate you is an asshole and who knows our boobs might change due to weight gain, late development, or pregnancy. Also when all the other girls tits sag ours will round out more and their sag will be sexy and not "tits down to your belly button" type. So dump this asshole, because let's be honest a guy who makes his woman jealous of other women is a boy. A real man makes other women jealous of his woman.

  • yeah he sounds like a total asshole. dump his ass. you don't deserve to feel inadequate. he should be so lucky to be with you! you don't have to change yourself for some stupid boy! I have A cups and my boyfriend constantly tells me how much he loves my boobs. he always tells me how perfect they are. you need a man like that. you sound perfectly proportional (unlike me- I'm 5'3, 105, A cup).

    if I were you, I'd dump him.

    if you don't want to do that though, I would definitely tell him to shut his trap. tell him that if he hates them so much then maybe he doesn't deserve to see them.

    in conclusion, you probably have a rockin' bod and he's just an idiot

Most Helpful Guys

  • Here's what you do. You dump your current boyfriend, because he's A) Immature B) A total d*** C) Insensitive D) A complete idiot and E) He doesn't deserve you.

    NEVER EVER date a guy that is degrading like that! You don't deserve that. Obviously he a moron and doesn't deserve you.

    There is no such thing as a perfect boob size. Some guys like big boobs, and some guys love them smaller. Big boobs and small boobs each have their pros and cons. But 34B is a beautiful size, and you honestly should feel very lucky! Have some confidence in yourself and your body, and get rid of that fool you call a boyfriend!

    • Did not mean to disagree with you! I was disagreeing with the anonymous user below you!

  • 34B is damn near perfect and you aren't even done growing yet and they are great for your size. He's and idiot and should learn how to keep his dumb ass opinions to himself. He either needs to accept you for who you are and admire the breasts you have now or you need to move on.

    • I myself am a B cup and sometimes I wish I had bigger breasts. but then there's times were I dont as you would have so many back problems and trying to find a bra to fitt is like the most annoying thing. I get bullied constantly by my younger sisters because they have bigger breast then me. but I don't really care because I love my boobs id rather the size I have then have none. also your partner shouldn't judge you unless he is asking to be judged back by the size of his penis.. he needs to pull his head in. every women is beautiful in their own way no one is perfect.!!

    • Everything, Said. I bet he would not like if you judged him by his penis size ;)

    • Wtf? B cups are not TOO SMALL THEY'RE PERFECT. Besides they're probs still growing, screw him if he can't accept your boobs and appreciate them then find someone who does. Lots of guys will go crazy for them, trust me i am a B cup myself, and tons of guys love them! Except for maybe some immature idiots who only care for big boobs, don't go for those guys, and don't let that ass whole control you, and be greatful for what you do have. Dump his pathetic ass right now please, I'll come over there and kick his ass don't worry. Every has different opinions on boobs, don't worry about it, you should be happy to have b cups, i am. Good luck.

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  • Some guys go crazy for petite breasts, and some like boobs the size of a small planet. Your boyfriend sounds like he takes you for granted, since you're not Pamela Anderson. His ideas of women are unrealistic, so I think you should tell him that. If all else fails, tell him you need a break from him. After a week or so he seems to miss you, then that means he was just being an asshole for that one moment.

  • come on, you got the perfect boob size. he's just a immature guy and you should dump his sad ass for putting you down. he probably watched too much porn to think that your boobs is too small. you are too good for him!

  • 1) Your stats are perfect. Feel confident in who you are.

    2) Don't even consider surgery for years. Give your self some time to mature both physically and emotionally before you make a life commitment like that.

    3) Your boyfriends comments are degrading and immature. It is up to you to decide how to deal with the relationship.

  • He sounds like a d***. B is great. Tell him if he doesn't like them the way they are he should go find some others that he likes, because I have no doubts you can easily get guys who appreciate yours.

  • He is seventeen and still immature don't even worry about it . You're body is just find the way it is and if he cares for you he will love you for you. Also keep in mind you and your boyfriends bodies are still not fully developed and you continue to change until about 21 years of age. Then you may have even bigger boobsand even if you don't you are still worth loving anyway.

  • First, many of us guys (most?) find that size area to be perfect, so do not fell badly about what you have.

    Second, guys really should not comment about a gal's features being too big or too small. If he is joking, it really is not funny and causes the woman to have image issues and to feel less good about herself. And if he is serious, it is even worse. If I was unhappy about a gal's "assets", my choices would be to keep it to myself and be happy with what she has, or at an extreme, to go my own way and find what I like. (Which I would not do, because I like the woman I am with for what she is inside.)

  • Boys do this to tease and casually bring up their trivial disappointments. The truth is, he simply doesn't know any better. And quite frankly neither do you. Your boyfriend is just being a hormone driven boy. You should not take his remarks seriously. Your perfectly fine and a perfectly healthy young girl.

  • I think a b cup is small in my opinion but people have preferences. I could cope with it.

    • I think 6 inches is too small, but there are preferences for it. I could cope! Douche.

  • Okay, forget these posts below. They are being PC (Politically Correct) to make you feel better. Let me tell you what you need to know and that is the truth, which is asked for but rarely ever given. I'll give you the truth.

    For the average man, B-size is smallish. There are some men who like small but most men (90%) like bigger (C as a min.). This is fact.

    So what should you do? You should first dump this guy because he doesn't appreciate you. Second, never consider a boob job unless you are overwhelmed with thoughts of self-awareness; then, perhaps think about it. My final thought would be: find one of the 10% of guys who love small breasts...there are many out there...personally, as a player, I don't mind B at all as long as the shape is good and the girl is nice, caring and smart.

    This is real. Hope it helps.

    • Well then if my boobs are too small why shouldn't I get implants?then guys will like me

    • Question Asker: Look, you are only 17 and are waaaaaaay too young to think about getting a boob job. Patience is a virtue...you have a whole lifetime to figure this out. I urge you to wait till 21 before you make any decision because remember the health risks with getting boob jobs...

    • But then guys would like me

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  • dump him, b cups not bad. I would never comment on my girlfriends appearance like that, he's a d***

  • It's your call, not his. If he doesn't like you for who you are, that's HIS loss. He sounds like real upstanding guy! Not-

  • you are still growing.. dont worry too much..

  • hell no your boob are not too small there perfect

  • no not at all if you had any bigger it would look out of place and disproportionate

    you should tell him he should love you for who you r

    and if he doesn't then you should drop him.

  • im a 34B as well and I wouldn't want them any bigger. lol.

  • I'm a 34B too!! *Digital highfive*

    • Ayyy high five girl me too

  • I love A and B cups, my favorite...

  • tell him to go find a girl with bigger boobs if he likes them so much.

  • I like my small anyway, more then a mouth full is a waste

    • Thank you!!!

  • Your size is perfect for your body size.

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