Caught giving his best friend a blow job.... Help me, please!

[Anonymous]

My older brother stepped out last night for a while, and in that time while he was gone, his best friend came over. I told his friend he could come in and wait until my brother got home. I've always had a crush on him, but I always thought he would never like me back. Well, last night he totally started flirting with me. Somehow we ended up in my room. We made out a little and I ended up giving him a blow job. My brother got home, but we didn't hear him come in. Next thing I knew, he was standing in my doorway yelling his head off. He walked in on me giving head to his best friend. As a result, I now have no door to my room. And my parents are gone on vacation, so its not like I can make them give me my door back. My brother hates his best friend, and he hates me. Please help! its really not that big of a deal, is it? I think he is over reacting. What should I do now? And I don't want him to tell my parents... they will KILL me. I'm technically not allowed to have any boy in my room : ( help! please.

[ilovelegs]

Wow I can understand your brother being totally surprised and p*ssed at his friend because he crossed over the line, but other than that he really doesn't have much to say about what you do when it comes to stuff like that. He's way over reacting. That's just none of his business. It's ok if he wants to be mad at his friend and have a good talk with him, but as a brother it'd seem like he only have a good talk with you and make sure you understood what a bad move that was on your part. Just ask him to not tell your parents. Tell him he has absolutely nothing to gain by telling on you, but he has your friendship to lose if he does. If he still insist on telling them, of course your parents will be very upset, but trust me it won't go any further then them grounding you or taking away some benefit of yours that they're given you... or maybe taking away your phone for awhile, ipod or whatever. In a month from now everything will be the same as it was before between your parents and you. I'm sure your parents will put the door back on if your brother doesn't. Tell them that at least you didn't get hurt bad while they were gone or that you didn't get in trouble with the law. That doesn't mean that they won't remember what they heard because they'll never forget that. Things like that don't slip through a person's memory to be forgotten forever. Just tell them you learned a big lesson but prove it by your actions. What you did wasn't the greatest thing for you to do, especially with a guy such as him. So you did have a boy in your room. That was the only thing you really did wrong. That isn't the end of the world. But you're right. It isn't that big a deal and your brother did over react. But you still have to deal with the situation as it is right now. Just keep your cool and you'll be surprised at how this will eventually pass over like it never happened. Let me know if you don't think this is true, ok? Good luck!

[fastandfurious]

Wow that was really great advice!

[Asker]

Thank you. And ya, it makes perfect sense.

[ilovelegs]

So has your brother cooled down some yet? But whatever happens don't let this incident spoil it between you and and your brother's best friend. Let this just be the beginning. Your brother needs to know that you like his friend and that he needs to expect that'll you'll be seeing more of him in the near future other than when he just comes to chill with him. Good luck!

[Asker]

Unfortunately, he hasn't much. And...my door is still yet to be re-attached. He tried talking to me yesterday about it... but we ended up just yelling at one another an me leaving the house to stay with a friend. I don't think ill be returning home until the day my parents get home. Until then, figure he can just cool off at his own pace.

[ilovelegs]

Good girl! That's a smart way to handle that since he insist on being your immature brother. Right, let him cool it because HE needs to. You were old enough and had the right to do what you did.

[jerseyse410]

he's really over reacting...why is it any of his business? I understand him feeling betrayed by his best friend but the door thing? that's just creepy. You need to make clear to your brother that you will like whoever you like, whenever you damn well please and that he needs to grow up and get over whatever it is that he's dealing with.

[shadowlegend]

It would be more embarrassing than anything. He probably couldn't face either of you. Give him time and he'll get over it. As for him and his mate, they have to work that out for themselves.

[Honest-Matt]

A guy finding his sister blowing his best friend. He does have the right to overreact but it should be at his best friend mainly for letting you go along with it.

There's sort of an unspoken rule sometimes and that rules is you never go for your best friends sister.

Brothers usually care and want to protect their sisters.

Also. What's this about no door? did your bro kick it off the wall or did your parents just take it off? lol

[Asker]

Well, since my parents are gone for the week... he was left in charge by default (I guess because he is older). So, he decided that I didn't deserve a door. So, he took it off. : / If I knew how to put it back on, I totally would. But... one, I would have to carry it upstairs, and two, I have no clue how to put a door on.

[l-hedoniste]

Repeat after me: "It's none of your business. I can suck any d*ck I want."

Then tell your folks, "If I can't blow him in my room, I'll blow him in the kitchen, the living room, and the front lawn, okay?"

Just kidding. If your brother decides to make a family scene, play the good girl until it blows over--pardon the pun--the suck his BFs d*ck elsewhere.

And you're right. It's not a big deal, and he is overreacting.

[mglass]

Message me and we can figure it out in depth, seriously I'll help =]

[deshawn78]

did he finish?

[funbacta]

Sorry, It's either you guys don't have sisters or you don't have best friends. I am not one of those people who freaks out over every little thing but I know my best friend and his level of maturity and I won't let him within 6 yards of any sister of mine, it's one thing if you guys were dating then there would be ground rules, believe me no brother wants to walk in on that, but you essentially just sucked his best friends d*** before even going on a first date . Now the girl who asked the question I guess you should ask yourself this would you be okay to if you stepped out for a while and came back to meet your brother giving it to your best friend, porn star style, I mean springs breaking, Yelling at the top of her lungs, if you would be fine with that then tell him to back of, if not apologize to him, and talk to his best friend, if he really wants to go out with you he should approach your brother like a real man.

[boushkash]

i am in a similar situation, can you please tell me how things went after your parents returned? I would really appreciate knowing what happened.

also, how is taking off the door related? why would he want to invade your privacy or have you change your clothes with the door open?