Girls, would you ever consider having a threesome?

Would you ever have one? If you have, input your experience as to how you felt before during and/or after. Also if you were to, would you rather it be with someone you know for comfortability? Or a stranger so it's less awkward during and afterwards? Is it with 2 guy? A guy and a girl? Or even 2 girls? Guys I already know that there is a LARGE number of you that will say yes. If there are any out there that do say no, speak up, why not? Guys that do, what type? Is it that super "ultimate fantasy" of 2 girls? Or maybe you and your buddy are both getting a vibe and she wants to hook up with the both of you. Do you guys want for it to be with girls you know? Maybe you want for it to be with two perfect strangers that do or don't know each other. Just put it out there, discuss why you would or wouldn't want to be apart of one. Also are there rules to it? If you're doing it as a couple is there no kissing? Guys are there no touching each other? There is a lot of talk about it already, but we might as well clarify it up. I know I've been asked by girls why guys think that it's so sexy?
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I received quite a number of messages, I'll answer a few common Q's:No I have not participated before.H*** yea I'd like to. I haven't due to not having the courage to really ask.I'd stick to 2 girls, but if a REAL close friend wanted too
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  • Ok I see that you have put a lot of thought into this. I have had 2 threesomes in my life and one with a guy and a girl and the other with 2 girls. I was asked for it to be with 2 guys but I don't think that I really could handle that. I am fine with an extra girl or me being the visitor in the whole thing. I was a little freaked out the first time I did it with the two girls cause A. I didn't know that my friend was a lez and B. I didn't know that she looked at me that way. It was great when we all were together cause they made me feel really comfortable and that helps a lot and is probably the reason that I did it the second time. Again it was with friends. I wouldn't be able to just be walked up to on the street by strangers and asked cause I am way to freaked by diseases. With people I am friends with, at least I know they are clean. It was a little odd after but again that was my own self doing and as soon as I noticed that they didn't think it was weird, then I didn't either. I am still friends with all of them and still get asked by the girls to join them again but I just can't do that. Not for any other reason then that I don't cheat and am going out with someone right now and also I wouldn't have a threesome with him and someone else cause I would try to kill the other person if they touched him.

    • Wow pretty informative, any more deets, and I'd either be in the room with you or watching it. j/k but thanks for the input, I didn't want the discussion just for my sake, I wanted to break down the current prenotions of sexual experimentation. Not every guy is going to jump on board, and not every girl just waiting for their chance to be asked. Although for all I know they are and now I need to go out and start asking...

    • Lol true but you might want to be careful who you ask cause I know a lot of girls that would slap for being asked that.

    • Although people are different from region to region. I've had this discussion with a huge group of my friends while we were hanging out, and were really surprised to find out that there were a number of girls in the group that were either willing or have had one. although afterwards they kept getting annoyed by how much more frequently they got hit on...

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  • I might consider it,... if I didn't love the guy I was with or deeply care about him. So basically what the other girl wrote. But I have fantasized about a threesome before [mostly because I am attracted to both guys and girls] but I would never EVER have a threesome with the guy I loved.

    ...unless the other girl was like 500 pounds and covered in body zits...[but then he probably wouldn't want it either ^^!]

  • I have never had a threesome and would not with a man I was in a committed relationship with. But I would not mind one. I would prefer it to be a man and another woman. I have never even kissed a girl but I have always been curious but I know me I would definitely need a man there to finish things off. I think I would want them to be strangers.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I would never consider having a threesome if I was in a serious relationship. I would not want some other guys hands all over my girl, I think I would get violent. At the same time, why would I expect it to be okay with my girl when clearly it's not with me? I'm sorry but the idea of having a threesome is just extremely selfish and downright hurtful. Now if it was just two girls that wanted a guy to have a threesome with, I might. Personally I don't want sexual contact outside of my significant other but yes, I know, I'm strange, oh well.

    • Aw, I love you.. Ha, ha.

  • I probably would enjoy me with 2 attractive girls, but in the end I would be too concerned about how it affected my girlfriend mentally (i.e., later thoughts of jealousy or thinking that I'm too much of a tramp for her to stay with me long-term, (even though she did it as well - feelings aren't always logical). If I could get past what effect it could have on my significant other, then I might try it.

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  • I'm not into threesomes. I must be weird, I like girls 1 by 1.

  • Ive been in BOTH two girls one guy...and one guy two girls threesomes AT THE SAME TIME LOL...It was me, my boy, and 2 girls. So I got the two girls at the same time, and the girl(s) got me an my boy at the same time...not bad, its actually pretty fun

    ONLY THING, it has to be with people you don't really care about. No strings attached.

    I would kill someone if there was a dude even looking at my girl sexually, so what does that say if he was having sex with her with me present.

    As for girl-guy-girl threesome, I wouldn't mind having one with my girlfriend as one of the girls as long as she's comfortable with it

  • If I did it it would be with a girl in another state that I thought was attractive, but not more attractive then myself..

    But I just don't think I could do it with a guy I really cared about.. To see him give a girl so much pleasure and to see the look on his face of him enjoying her and not me... Only one d*** can't do us both at one time..

    I just couldn't do it.. :(

    • See guys, that means the nice guy get nothing and the bad guys gets the threesomes, be the bad guy.

    • What? I should rephrase that.. I wouldn't have sex with someone I didn't really care about, much less a threesome.. So even though I want to please him, I couldn't do it.. Good guy, bad guy, no threesomes..