Why can't I get wet and how to fix it?

Question

I'm 18 and I have never been able to get really wet. I'm still a virgin though. I don't wanna disappoint my future boyfriend and myself by not being able to get wet so I want to fix this problem asap. It's not that I never get turned on cause trust me I DO. I'm horny very very often and I masturbate usually daily, often multiple times a day. I always have to use my saliva as a lube and it's so frustrating and stupid. Only time my vagina actually produces some lube is sometimes when I finger myself but it's not always and it's not a lot.
Why am I in this stupid situation? I wanna get wet like all the girls sooo baaad. Could my testosterone levels be higher than average for a girl? Cause I read sonewhere that that could be the cause of my dryness. That would explain a lot. But what can I do about it? How do I fix myself? Should I see a doctor?

Onepiecefan2000 · Accepted Answer

the big key is constant stimulation and fore play. First I would recommend starting out in the fallowing outfit: T-shirt, bra, and panties, first you start rubbing the top of your pussy over your undies while playing with your boobs over your bra and shirt for about a 3 mins, then while sticking your hand down your panties and rubbing your pussy start taking off your shirts (the key to this is to to switch hands), then take your panties and bra off, then start rubbing your clit for a good 8-10mins , while one hand is still busy with your boobs (I can show you a pic of of a diagram so u can find your clit). Then stick your finger inside your pussy and point it upward and start rubbing there and play with your boobs (of course), do this for about 10-30mins or until you orgasm (wich is a sensation feeling you are building up this whole time) , the stronger the intensity is the stronger the orgasm will be. Make sure to be thinking dirty thoughts through out this process. Also make sure to give you a couple hours of alone time.

roxyreigns · Accepted Answer

i don't know if high testosterone causes lack of wetness. i feel like if you did have unusually high testosterone levels, other symptoms may have made themselves more obviously apparent than just this, but this is something i could totally be wrong about. although, i guess something else it could be related to would be if you had an androgen insensitivity syndrome from birth - i haven't seen anything specifically from androgen insensitivity syndrome stuff that would say that women with it don't get wet, but from my pretty limited understanding, it's at least a little bit plausible?

it might just be some random biological thing. these things happen. but then again, as other girls said, it's not really that unusual

Mrw435 · Accepted Answer

I'm guessing that once you get going with the right guy you'll be plenty wet...

But a lot of women have problems getting wet. A lot of medications can keep you from getting wet.

Ask your dr before you try anything but you could go to the store and get a tube of KY or some other water based lubricant. That will help and you can use that while masturbating too.

Slippery is always better ;)

TadCurious · Accepted Answer

First, don't panic. You have a good sex drive, because you say you do get horny and masturbate. I would advise you to talk to your doctor about this. Especially if your doctor is a man, I realize that might be awkward, but he's a trained professional and he knows about how bodies are supposed to work. In the meantime, you may want to masturbate using a water-based lube from the store. I doubt that whatever is going on with your lack of vaginal wetness is a serious problem.

thomasjjeffy · Accepted Answer

It's normal that you don't just get wet on your own by not doing anything.
That's what foreplay is for (:

You do some foreplay with your future boyfriend, and you'll get wet.

If he's looking down on you for not getting wet, kick him on his testicles or tell him that if he wants to help perhaps he could be more attractive ;)

Mesonfielde · Answer

You might only respond to physical arousal due to physical contact from attractive males in that regard.

Chadster · Answer

getting a trusted guy to give you oral sex might help... but maybe you should find a female docter and tell her your problem.

Sirisaac · Answer

How hard do you masturbate?

scrap422 · Answer

Finger will work better and u need to find the right spots and try doing it for a lot longer

sunsong · Answer

have you heard of foria? wonna no if it werks!

LataJani · Answer

It's normal and you will get wet. The lube is not always that much but slowly you will learn how to get wet. Try to think of a guys having loving with you and remind your sexual pleasure or masturbation and rub your clit between your legs and then see how you get wet. Just imagine a guys is licking your clit and his tongue is on your clit or inside your beautiful pussy.