this is like a guy posting and asking:
"what do girls think of guys who pay for the first date? like, does it come off as creepy or desperate? not the kind of guy you really feel attracted to? I was with this girl the other day, we went out on a date, and when the check came I paid for us. I really wonder what she thinks of me now. better? worse? :*("
honestly.. it depends on the way she gives it..
if it's a desperation blowjob.. like.. she thinks that by giving me a blowjob.. we're automatically going to be serious or in a relationship.. then I'll be insulted.. and emotion that will be backwards rationalized.. after the blowjob of course..
if she does it because she wants to.. because she genuinely wants to.. because she's in the mood or because she just wants to please me (and those are her only intentions and motives).. then.. (1) it just makes the blowjob better.. and (2) obviously there's no single guy in the world who would think any less of her for it.. if anything.. I'd wager that most guys would like her more.. I don't want to use a strong word like "all".. becauses I know plenty of guys that it wouldn't make the slightest difference to..
As far as taking her home.. here's some food for thought..
the chances of a guy taking a girl HOME.. to his PARENTS.. who he has yet to be sexual with.. are very slim.. that's like him taking every girl he just met or is dating.. home to his parents..
when a girl wants you to meet her parents.. w/e.. it doesn't necessarily mean you're serious about her.. if you are.. great.. you finally get to meet her family.. if you're not.. then you're just meeting two strangers who you might never talk to again..
but when a guy brings a girl back home.. it's someone he wants his parents' more experienced opinion about.. do you like the way she looks? do you like how she is? do you think she's manipulative? can you spot out some other things I might not notice about her since I'm in love with her? are you happy with her career and education? do you think she would make a good addition to the family? could you see her as the mother of your grandkids?
he's NOT going to take a girl home who he doesn't feel safe about long-term.. and the chances of that being someone who he hasn't been physically involved with.. are almost zero.. prior to being somewhat intimate.. she might as well just be a friend.. some girl he knows and went out with one time..
plus.. I think every guy's dad is pretty aware about the sexual skills of each of the girls he brings home.. guys talk too..
sh*t.. I even remember my mother telling me once.. "at least Amy knew how to give good handjobs.. you'd think that someone who talks as much (Tiffany) would be a little bit less of a cold fish"
if I was a dad.. and my son let me know his girlfriend wasn't sexual or wasn't a fan of oral.. I'd think there's something seriously wrong with the poor girl..
Deja vu, I swore I just answered this.
Anyway, I like girls who are open sexually, they are much more secure people.
As far as introducing them to mom, that has to do with the relationship we have.
I don't treat or think of a girl any differently when I review what we do sexually.
That shouldn't factor into my feelings in any negative way.
If we have a solid relationship, and it's the right thing to do, she will meet my mother. If it's not , then she won't.
But what we do sexually doesn't affect this decision. And any person who uses sex acts as a precursor for their relationship is someone with a very serious mental health issue and needs professional attention.
great answer!
lol. as I'm sure you noticed, guys love getting blowjobs... they'll always appreciate you giving them one. I think it'd be pretty hard to find a guy who would judge you badly because you gave him pleasure. and honestly, if the blowjob really caused him to question you as a person, I'm sure he would have let you know by now. if he thought blowjobs were trashy, I don't think he would have let you do it. I doubt it really changed his opinion of you that much, he's probably just appreciates that you're willing to give him oral- some girls won't do that at all. (if you really want to know how he feels, turn the tables... what would you think of a guy that fingered you or gave you head? you'd just be thankful..) don't worry about it, just keep on doing what you're doing and he'll be happy (and he'll owe ya one).
They think we're great! I've already giving head to a couple guys the first two times I've hung out with him. One turned out being my boyfriend and the other one is still a great friend. It's definitely not looked as something trashy. On the contrary, I think we're looked at as a girl that's not a prude and guys prefer a girl like that than one that isn't. I can't imagine your boyfriend thinking anything less of you for doing it, He probably thinks more of you and is more anxious for you to meet his mom. I'm sure he's thinking of you better, definitely not worst.
Oral Sex is not disgusting at all. It takes maturity, and being comfortable with your own sexuality. If he decided to judge you negatively based on your actions, then he's an immature douchebag who is very small minded about sex...and does not deserve to be pleased!
Men perform oral sex on women all the time. We do not pre-label them and say "I'm not taking you home to Papa." LMAO
If he dumps you...then he's a d#ck!
If he stays with you...then he will be smiling & thanking you for years to come...!
It is very special when a girl gives head. It is not trashy and even if it was trashy I would prefer trashiness to fridgidity. I tend to be happier in a relationship where the girl is not inhibited. I read'girl's answers to watching men masturbate. If you would like to watch or know of any girl who would like to watch just add me to atkinsonadrian@yahoo.com. I have just satisfied a girl's curiosity so I hope I will not dissapoint if it is soon.
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As far as taking them to mom, that depends on them as a person and how serious our relationship is.
What we do sexually is not a factor in how I treat a girl, and it shouldn't be that way for any guy or girl.
If it is, then that person has a serious mental health issue that needs professional attention.
I'm bigger on being accepted by her parents then my mom because I'm not close with my family at all and I would hate for her family to interfere. So, a blowjob, if done out of genuine want or to reciprocate or something like that, would definitely make me feel stronger about her.
I think they're wonderful, and of course I'd take one to my mother. It's not like she's going to ask, "So, you blowing my boy?" I wouldn't offer the information, either.
Offer to blow me during the Thanksgiving meal, and that's a dealbreaker; one saves that for in between courses.
Well every girl I have ever dated has given me them, and it only makes me appreciate them more. I am pretty sure most girls give blowjobs anyways, I don't know any who haven't lol (other than people who are new to that sort of thing). I mean, if you are getting it from a girl you care about it shows you totally trust her with yourself, and it can be very intimate.
Guys eat girls out all the time, what's the difference?
In a relationship they're OK.
I would not have a girlfriend who would not blow me so...
what do you think of men with jobs?
All girls give blowjobs, don't worry.
I would agree with girls {first 2 posted} opinions here.
sooner or later return the favor.
I'm not a guy... but just wondering, does he go down on you?
If I went down on a guy who wouldn't do the same for me I'd feel like I allowed myself to be used, cause that just ain't right. Then I'd feel trashy and want to smack some sense into myself.
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