My girlfriend has done stuff before and it drives me insane, literally

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend has had wo boyfriends before me. They were both a-holes to her and only used her because she gave a great blowjob and is absolutely beautiful. Her first boyfriend James, for 4 months they only kissed then one day she could come over when it was pretty much just him and that day was the first day she was naked in front of a man, first time she seen another man naked, first time she gave a handjob, first time she gave a blowjob, first time she was ate out, first time her boobs were played with, and James begged her to swallow his come even though it was her first time. I'm getting really upset and emotional as I type this... Her next boyfriend Steven, was also an a-hole who just never cared for her at all. She gave him blowjobs and everything to but with a catch, my gf's friend one night had the great idea of giving my girlfriend a strawberry condom to give Steven a blowjob while he wore the condom. well, that turned out to be the first time she had sex, and after ten seconds she told him it was starting to huirt and so he threw her off and left her lying there crying in the floor while he went to sleep. He left her a month later... I cannot rid myself of these images, and thoughts. Everyday they bug me even after 17months of going out. This tears me apart from the roots of my heart, I don't know how to handle these issues. Can someone please help me because I am having SERIOUS problems with this and need help...

[Dela1111]

You're being too sensitive about all of this. If you can't deal with her past then you shouldn't be with her, don't try to force yourself. Everyone gets hurt in life and we all make mistakes, she's no different, just in this case she let herself be taken advantage of by guys she should have known weren't good for her.

Either get over it or leave her.

[rdxhai]

Yeah man no guy wants to picture his girl having sex with another guy or doing all those things that why it;'s best to never ask if you can't handle it. But honestly she hasn't done that bad of things get be happy that is all she has done.

[Asker]

I didn't ask, she asked me if I had ever had sex before and I said " nope, this dogs stayed under the porch" and she told me that she had. I didn't caer at all then. Didn't lose any sleep over it. we'd laugh together at blowkob stories she told me. Then, little by little, it began to bug me. I wish she had never told me.