Guys, Could you please detail the best blow job you've ever had?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for quite some time. So any nervousness or being timid or anything doesn't happen between us. You could say really anything goes and we are completely comfortable with each other. He absolutely loves them and I am always willing to give them. I am always looking for something new to do and was hoping you could help me by telling me what you like most of all. Or if you have a fantasy, you could post that too. Something you've always wanted but would never say. Thanks! I know he will appreciate it. ;-)

[Method]

Well, this is my fantasy :)

1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ---->
10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

Good luck

[InquisitiveMale]

I think it's funny how some people will ask men about giving a good blowjob. Men are typically clueless when it comes to this. We don't know exactly what she is doing down there, were not really thinking about it. All were thinking about is how good it feels.

Same goes for people who ask women what the best way to pleasure them orally is. Sure there going to have a general idea but ask a knowledgeable guy (such as myself) and your going to get a much more detailed explanation of what were actually doing down there.

[MrWizard]

While a bj is a wonderful physical feeling, I think a big part of the allure is the visual show your guy gets. A sexy outfit, turned on attitude, and a few naughty smiling glances up will provide just that much more enjoyment out of the event.

Make it unexpected, like feeling him up in the kitchen, pulling his pants down, and starting the act right there like you can't even wait long enough to get to the bedroom. In the car on a drive is great too!

Don't forget the tongue! Any extra lightly lubed friction/texture is going to feel great.

Try lots of suction on the underside glans right as he is about to lose it.

Keep going for a little while after ejaculation as he is likely hypersensitive at that point. Like a cool down run after a workout!

[dtaylor31906]

I like this one the best its what I would have typed but he said it already lol but I would like to say that the surprise thing he mentioned would be my favorite part

[MrWizard]

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