There is a girl. There is your d***. It is in their mouth.
There is so much to love!
1. I find a girl's face the most attractive feature (especially the eyes), so you get to see the prettiest part of your partner
2. You can watch their reactions, see them enjoying themselves giving you pleasure (hopefully!)
3. I know you can watch a girl enjoy themselves during regular sex, but the act of oral sex is pretty selfless. Yeah it is fun (well I enjoy going down on girls), but it's not like you're gonna get an orgasm from giving oral. It's one partner submitting to the other, it's like you're giving a gift! Everyone likes gifts, and many people like being generous ;) All sex has some sado-masochistic balance, lots of people like being the S and the M.
4. Back to the face again. Combine all the last three. You can look a girl in the eyes while her current goal is to make you feel great, that's her purpose in life for the next 5-10 minutes (or however long). There's nothing that's more of a turn-on than a girl like that on the end of your penis :D
5. It feels real good. Although after I've started penetrative sex I find that a BJ after isn't errr.. powerful (?) enough.
6. If you're not using a condom, it's nice for lubrication! Or lubrication for a hand/tit job.
7. Regular sex feels better for your d***, but regular sex doesn't do anything for your balls. Girls: Do not skip the balls! It's like half the fun of a BJ, and it's something that you can't really get from any other act (it's not like you put your balls into a girl's p**** lol)
8. Same with the perineum and ass (if your guy is into it).
I think that's it haha.
Re: Male superiority complex. Errr what's oral sex for a girl then? Surely that's a 'female superiority complex'. See point 3 again. Sex is fun when you can give, receive and give-and-receive :P If there was no oral sex, it would just be boring.
Why we like girls to swallow? It kinda makes me feel disgusting if a girl wants to spit it out. Imagine if a guy went down on you and then ran to the bathroom to wash his mouth out! Swallowing is less messy, quicker and doesn't break the mood either (something which putting on a condom usually does for me).
On the other hand, I prefer to just spaff all over a girl's face. But that IS probably to do with the 'male superiority complex' :P
- Guys are visually stimulated and a BJ provides a great 'show' for him.
- It certainly is a pleasing experience physically.
- It fulfills oral fixations for both the giver and receiver.
- It is exciting to have your girl do something that is really something only for you. Yes, you will read about girls liking to give them, but the physical pleasure is yours and it is something she wants to do for you. Knowing you turn her on is a big emotional boost.
I don't think it is a superiority deal, since lots of guys are eager to reciprocate and go down on their girl.
You could get into the psychological aspects of swallowing, not having something of yours rejected and all, but I think it is probably more likely due to just how good it feels to be sucked off right as you are climaxing and during the moments after.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Its not a male superiority complex at all...I LOVE going down on my girl, whenever she wants and its a reciprocity thing. Also, when a girl swallows your cum, its a sign of acceptance, at least to me. If she spits my come out then its kind of like, I'm not good enough and its a severe mood killer. It feels wonderful yes but at the same time, when she looks at me after, its just heaven
honestly, for me I think that it does reallly feel good, but part of it is because she is actually willing to do that for me, it just makes me go crazy (in a good way)
pretty much the main part of it, I think, is what she feels. if she honestly don't like it I'm not really gona feel much pleasure, knowing she doesn't like it.
if she does, I'll feel so much more, because I know she's loving it too.
i think in terms of swallowing and all that I don't mind, but maybe because its less mess.. lol I don't know... again I'm referring to how she feels, like its so much more pleasurable if I know she would enjoy swallowing it etc. hope this helps :)
hmmm... well to me if you swallow it means your "sexually wild" , "hott" and wanting to take all of me...
ya didn't mention deep throat,hmmmmm?
I love it because it feels great and I love that she is doing it for my pleasure. I don't consider it to be a superiority thing, since I really like going down on my girl even when she doesn't give me a blowjob in return.
I love blow jobs from my wife. Over the years, she has become quite an Artist. The whole "swallow" thing is subjective... When we're drunk, or when we're really hot-to-trot, she'll do this for me - and believe me - it's like winning the lottery!
I don't objectify women, but I have to admit, I love to grap my wife by her hair when she is taking me down town... I think there is just something primordial about this. I am sure I can't define it, I can't even explain it.
It would be like me attempting to explain why men like sex from behind so much; it's hard-wired. In all fairness, my wife is a real princess, when it's time for her turn - and I love it.
She's so demanding and particular when it comes to how she gets "done". I call her "Miss Hollywood", LOL!
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