Why Is My Boyfriend So Quiet During Sex?

He's the only guy I've ever had sex with so I don't know if most guys are like this,but during sex,he's quiet.I mean,he makes faces,and breaths heavy,but he makes no sound,maybe a light grunt when he cums.Does this mean he isn't enjoying sex?or is this normal?

 

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  • Yeah that's normal. Girls tend to be more vocal. It's usually just social conditioning. Sometimes I think girls are vocal to a dramatic and silly extent because they think they are "supposed" to make noise.

    • Whats so hot about it if it's fake and put on? Like I make some noise and I can't help it, but I'm not going to TRY and make noise like some girls do. That's just obnoxious.

    • I think girls should during sex like moaning but nothing excessive lol I find it super hot when a girl moans in Pleasure

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    Yeah, dudes don't tend to make noise. I think it is out of social conditioning to an extent.. same as women making tons of fake noise. It seems like most and for both genders like some sexy feedback from their partner -- after all you're making it with someone you have feelings for and trying to share the experience. Talk about it + give it time, my boyfriend makes a bit of noise now (after being completely silent) and it is frickken hot. Sex life enhanced big time cause I get into it more and it brings more out of each other.

  • Well I don't make a lot of noise during sex. My ex (we only just broke up and I am hoping to reconcile) complained once or twice about me not making enough noise. I tried talking dirty/passionately depending on the situation and it seemed to please her enough. She was a lot louder than me, especially if she was sure no one would hear us. Don't worry about it too much. I think if you are really concerned you should talk to him about it.

  • lol... cute. yeah that is normal. guys don't moan like girls. guys just sweat and make funny faces and talk dirty. no noises.

    • Eh... some guys make some noise (not like AHHHHH OMG OMG OMGOMGOMG UR Soo YYYYYYYYYYYYEAHHHH YEEEEEEEEEEEEEE HAWWWWWWWWWWW THIS IS SO HOT OMFG OH MY GODDDDDDDDDD IM GONNN........." you get the picture. but some grunting and moaning is acceptable. besides I think girls would like their man to make at least SOME noise and talk dirty/passionatley

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