I know WHY women give blow jobs and what makes them get down on their knees without having to ASK them, let alone BEG them for it and look like an idiot. The fact is that... if you have to ASK for a blow job, you are DEFINITELY on the wrong track with convincing this girl to go down on you. If you are having problems convincing your current girlfriend to give you a blow job, here are 3 things you need to do, in the following order. This may sound crazy to you, but, hey - whatever works!
1. Figure her out
The first thing you need to do if you want to get your girlfriend to give you blow jobs is to UNDERSTAND her. First, understand WHY she isn’t giving you a blow job RIGHT NOW? Is it because your d*** is FULL of hair, you never shave it and it smells like piss? If not, maybe it’s because the last time she gave you head, you RAMMED it down her throat like a lunatic and made her gag like insane? OR, she doesn’t see why would she give you a blow job if You never went down on HER? Maybe you are behaving like THE WOMAN in your relationship, instead of being THE MAN, so SHE is bossing You around, telling you what to do, how to do it, why to do it - while you are running around following her like a little homeless dog? Or maybe all this isn’t the case. Whatever it is - figure it out. You’ll never get your girlfriend to ENJOY giving you blow jobs if she doesn’t RESPECT You as a person and if she doesn’t view you as someone valuable to her.
2. Being ABOVE
A blow job is about SUBMISSION. She submits to You. She goes down, sucks your balls, licks them, kisses them, sucks on your d*** and takes your load with pride ( or not, yet ). Whatever it is, she is in a position where she submits to you, in these moments, you are her God. She needs to FEEL comfortable in this position and she needs to be OK with submitting herself sexually to you. Letting go, and letting you “take her” in bed. The only way this can happens is if you are psychologically ABOVE her in your relationship. Basically, if you’re “the boss” of your relationship, she’ll be comfortable with submitting herself to You and giving you a blow job. How do you that? Get her to respect you. And learn how to say “no.” You have to be ready to lose her. Basically, she needs to love you more than you love her. If You love her more than she loves you, she’ll have the power in the relationship. The emotional power over you.
3. Figure yourself out
The third thing you need to do to get her to give you blow jobs more often is to figure out WHO You are and what do you WANT in life. When you are lost in space, you have no power, thus, you won’t be attractive to her. Do whatever you can to feel more self confident. For some guys, that’s having more money, freedom, a higher social status... but all that isn’t as important as your ATTITUDE and your way of thinking.
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