Why is my girlfriend scared to orgasm?

My girlfriend stops herself from orgasm just before she reaches it when i rub her down there, she says she is scared of what will happen. I have tried many ways to make her feel more at ease with no luck. she is a virgin. Please help?
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Thanks for all your help! will. definitely try it!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I know this may sound crazy but she may be scared of being pregnant or STDs - a lot of people have alternate theories and thus not too educated on these things. Finding out why she's scared may help.

    OR she may well be scared that if she orgasms then she may want more and thus lead to sex which she may not be willing to lose (her virginity) at this juncture :-)

  • Next time have your arms wrapped round her when your doing it so you can keep going when she tries to make you stop.
    An ex of mine was like that and she absulotley loved me after ;)

    • Wrap from the back or how?

Most Helpful Girls

  • You need to be kissing when she gets to that point so she can relax and fall into the moment. She's thinking too much & ruining the experience for herself. Let her know that's all you want for right now. Then hug on her afterwards so she doesn't feel used. Her inexperience is scaring her right now.

  • If she is virgin then she is afraid... Try to make sure that she trusts you 100% because is not that easy to let your self completely out of control especially a front a guy so just try to talk to her and don't put her under the pressure

  • Continue to be patient and understanding as you are already doing. For now the goal doesn't have to be an orgasm. So long as she's enjoying herself, that's all that matters. Eventually she'll let go and allow herself to have an orgasm.

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  • Some girls can also get the feeling that they are going to pee right before they orgasm (they arent). Maybe she get that feeling and dosent know that its normal and that she isn't going to pee :)

  • Maybe she's afraid she'll fall in love with you. I've never had a guy give me an orgasm, and I don't really want to find one that can. I don't want to fall in love. Or trick my brain into thinking that at least.

  • I'm a virgin too. So I would say she is scared I would be too. We don't know what to expect or what to happen.