What tips can I give my girlfriend for a blowjob?

[Anonymous]

My girl has been giving me a handjob and blowjob but I haven't been able to orgasm. I can see it frustrates her and it frustrates me too that I can't get off to her. I think she moves too slow and puts too much pressure on. We have great communication and we talk, but what other tips can I show her or tell her?

[TeresaTiger]

Communicate. And both of you should remember that it is NOT about the end. It is about the journey there. If you tell her what you like but also let her just explore then it will all slowly and naturally come together. Eye contact is great too. Stay connected. Talk. Talking, especially dirty-talk that is also instructional and informative, is very important and very erotic. Before you both know it you will be shooting off and you both will have hopefully had a lot more fun getting there.

[Anonymous]

uhh...tell her to watch a video! I know it's kind of repulsive to some girls...but to be honest.

If she really wants to be good...watch a video. It's a good way to get good tips.

Tell her to use her hands AND her mouth on your member!

My friend tells me I'm "too good"...he says typically it takes him forever, but I can get him within10 minutes. :)

And she doesn't have to buy videos, just look them up online...

LUCK!

[Asker]

What videos? Any ones specific?

[A-Soldiers-Wife07]

Tell her exactly how you want it and what she needs to do. My husband was my first, so he kind of had to walk me through and it didn't hurt my feelings or anything. It made things better because he showed me how to pleasure him the way he likes it and made our sexual relationship stronger.

[jetsfan101]

yea man you gotta tell her how you like it. Or if you have a porn star in mind, watch her blowjob videos and tell her you like it like that. Trust me she's gonna wanna replicate that. I'm getting brain from a girl now that has pretty much perfected jenna jameson bj...all I gotta say is, AWESOME!

[gravygirl]

This is really on you to communicate what you like. Especially if she's eager to please. Give her some direction. Tell her what you like and then tell her to not stop doing that until you finish.

[aimige]

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[tayfcosta]

I think you should talk to her first and do not pressure yourself too much, cause if you do, it will be harder for you to have any orgasm. You can play with her with something that reminds a penis shape, simulate how you would like her to move, talk dirt.

I think that will solve your problem...