I want to have sex with my girlfriend but she refuses?

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Hey, friends please help me in this. I want 2 have sex with my G.F but she is refusing me by saying that we cannot do sex before marriage? Can I know the reason wait she don't want 2 have sex with me and how can I make sex with her when she is refusing.

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TessAshwin Xper 6
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well everyone have got their own priorities in Life...i have mine to.I too am the same like your gf. My boyfriend always asks me to have sex with him. BUT refuse to have it before marriage. I have clearly made my point with him...if you want sex go get another gf.

but ...lol...he only wants me...lol..
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- Asker
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  Hey can't you give me some tips 2 hav only sex with her?
- TessAshwin
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  I told you I DONT LIKE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE same with ur girl......so if ur sooooooooooooooo desperate get another girl
shortskirtbighips Xper 4
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The two of you quite clearly have different priorities, maybe you need to find someone who wants the same things as you.
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- Asker
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  Hey, you are right but I like her too much and I wanted to have sex only with her. Can't you give me some good ideas to have sex with her?

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Dela1111 Xper 3
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Ok borat, if she doesn't want to have sex, then go find another girlfriend or deal with it.
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- Asker
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  But, I want to make sex only with her. You can't give some tips or what
- Asker
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  Hey can you pliz give me some tips to do sex only with her? I mean some good ideas!!
l-hedoniste Master
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Your options are clear:

Marry her, or

Screw someone else.

Good luck.

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- Asker
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  Hey, thanks for your idea but can't You give me some tips to do sex only with her?
- l-hedoniste
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  Nope, no tips. If she won't, she won't. Move on.

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paigems Explorer
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Either you accept that you're not going to be able to have sex with her until you marry her, or you find a new gf. You can't pressure her to do something that she doesn't want to do.
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- Asker
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  Hey, you are right but I like her too much and I wanted to have sex only with her. Can't you give me some good ideas to have sex with her?
- paigems
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  No. If she said no then listen to her. God you are selfish.
MrWizard Xper 3
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Sounds like you are at a decision point. Either she changes her beliefs, you get married, or you find a new girlfriend.
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rdxhai Xper 6
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Well if your not religious like that then It probably won't work out.
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- Lacutis
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  Not every person who chooses not to have sex until marriage is doing it for religious reason. There are lots of reasons not to have sex until marriage.
- rdxhai
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  Yeah and there all f***ing stupid.
- jdcpa
  +1 y
  They're not stupid at all.. "why would a man buy the cow when he can have the milk?" (french proverb for a mother's advice to her daughter).. translation: find any reason you can to not have sex (religion, fears, morality, etc) until marriage, that way you establish that if he wants to have sex, he will have to marry you, and don't worry about silly things like the irony or hypocracy surrounding your morals by wanting this kind of marriage.. s/o will take care of you! that's all that matters!
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- jdcpa
  +1 y
  "go sell yourself before you ass gets too old for customers to want" (Edith Piaf's mother); in order for girls to adopt this kind of tactic, they must first believe they're useless, worthless, and dependent on men. marriage to them is a priority, and their body (sex) is the only thing they have to offer a man. so if a man wants her, he must first commit himself to taking care of her for the rest of his life.
- jdcpa
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  You know what your problem is? You don't want "sex", you want "sex with HER". You can have sex with anyone, but you can only have sex with her; with HER. You know what her problem is? She's getting older. By the time she's over her 18-23 peak, she's old, and it's much harder to "sell her ass" to "customers". The only person who can lose here is her; unless you do something stupid like tolerate or get manipulated into feeling like a good person for going along with her, and bad if you don't.
- jdcpa
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  If it comes to a bargaining game, she simply has more to lose. What happens if you don't marry her and instead leave her? Nothing. You didn't have sex with s/o who didn't want to have sex with you or wanted to bargain with sex to get marriage in return. Big whoop. That means you never really lost "sexual intimacy" since she never really cared about you more than she did about herself. You lost "sexual release", but that is free and you can do that yourself.
- jdcpa
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  She however, lost a buyer, a customer, and time. Her apple is rotting with the passage of time, becoming less and less desirable. And since it's the only thing she has to offer, if she doesn't do away with her "no sex until marriage" tactic; she may never actually get married as guy after guy keeps leaving her, and she'll just have to do what she fears most.. hold a job and be responsible for her own life without someone else to depend on and take care of her
- rdxhai
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  If you even think I attempted to read your essay you are terribly mistaken. tl;dr
- jdcpa
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  If you start dating girls who are doing something with their life, and have more than sex to offer you; you'll start to see that none of them employ the "no sex until marriage" tactic.. they have no reason to. Sex is not the only reason s/o would be interested in her, and she has more valuable bargaining chips on the table; like intellect, emotion and money, to offer a man. If you want to find an equal, leave her. If you want to feel in control and "wear the pants", you're gonna have to pay 4 it