Missionary is pretty easy for her to relax, and for you to be in tune with each other's reactions. If she'd rather be in control versus just relaxing, her on top could work.
If there's some position that turns her on like crazy, I'd go with that, even if its not supposed to be the easiest.
The thing that will have the most impact on how well things go, is how aroused she is. Relaxed and careful are good, but don't turn this into a medical procedure. That makes it worse, not better.0 0 0 0
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Missionary. If you later want to get more adventurous then cowgirl (you on your back her on top). Take your time, don't be afraid to communicate with each other about how it feels as you go. Make the foreplay long. Cuddle/kiss lots afterwards so she doesn't feel used. Do it where there is no chance someone will walk in on you.
1 0 0 0I'd stick with missionary
She lays on her back, lifts her legs up an you literally just go inbetween her legs and thrust.
Sounds basic and bland but it can still be really great!
No one expects mind blowing p*rn star sex their first time haha :)2 0 0 0Missionary is the best one, I think. It's simple and it allows you to see each other which can make things more comfortable.
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5 3Missionary is always great for beginners.
0 0 0 0Missionary!!! Good for communication and reassurance (I don't mean verbally)
0 0 0 0First time go with missionary. Best to stick with basics so each person is comfortable and has an idea of what to expect.
0 0 0 0Mission is my recommendation
0 0 0 0Absitence is best. Odds are you guys won't be together for long so why not save yourself.
0 0 2 3You really want the best for people don't you? -.-
Look at the statistics. High school sweethearts never stay together for the long haul. So why risk having sex and the girl getting pregnant? That puts BOTH of their lives on hold. Condoms aren't 100% proof and if you all suggest they should take that risk with the possibility of it ruining their futures then you people should be ashamed of yourselves.
doggy style.
0 0 2 1No. doggy style allows for greater depth. Which makes it more painful for the girl if she's never had sex
more slowly when it doesn't hurt, my ex-girlfriend said. very slow
The piledriver.
0 0 0 0Missionary or cowgirl
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