Is it damaging to me if humiliation turns me on?

Could it be mentally or emotionally damaging to enjoy being humiliated for sexual arousal? For some reason, being embarrassed makes me horny. Things like being called names and made to do embarrassing things and wear revealing clothing and basically whatever a guy wants me to do, really turns me on! But could this have a negative effect on me in the long run?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • As long as you don't become dependent on this for sexual gratification, I think you should be fine. Monitor your own behavior, if your noticing changes within yourself (are you more drawn in, less assertive, feeling less confident than usual etc.) I might reevaluate your need for participating in acts of humiliation. It's also extremely important that you have clear boundaries established with your partner about when and where this behavior is acceptable, you can do this by having a physical cue even, maybe kneeling at the end of the bed lets him know that your in for being submissive tonight. For now, if you're enjoying it then just go with it! This practice is very common and there's no shame in being aroused by it. I would only be concerned for you if you enjoyed being submissive in all areas of a relationship - not just sex.

  • It is part of BDSM and as long as you acknowledge the things being said aren't true then it should be fine.

  • Nope, everyone gets turned on for different things.

Most Helpful Guys

  • it can be if you get used to it... like get used to being called a bitch and start allowing your bf to do it oten when not having sex... other than something like that i wouldn't say so... but do it anyway if it dont kill you makes u more fun

  • It's not a bad thing, like anything else you should keep your sexual life in the bedroom. If a girl had this fetish I wouldn't think anything bad of her.

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  • Only if you try to hide from it.

  • You will only know it is if you want change.

  • It's actually pretty common in the BDSM community. As long as you're comfortable with and not being abused, I don't see the problem with it.

  • That's just BDSM.