Question 1: (When is a girl ready to be kissed? What's the signs)
- I recommend looking for non-verbal clues. Usually when a girl is wanting to kiss a guy, she is nervous and less focused on controlling her emotions; instead, she wants to control her body and prevent herself from doing what she wishes. If she scares away the boy, it means she has been rejected and could mean failure. SO-- the signs that I think to look for would be:
Dialating eyes (the dark black pupil enlarges)
Twittering Eyebrows (Very hard to catch on to)
Obviously Nervous (Her words are stuttering or she doesn't seem ok)
Looking at your mouth (easy to catch on to, but can sometimes mean something different)
Hints (VERY hard to catch on to.)
Eyes dialate when the person encounters something he or she likes.
Twittering Eyebrows are a sign of a "shock" that indicates an interest in the person at hand.
Being overly nervous could be a sign that the person finds you intimidating, but that they like the risk.
Looking at your mouth is a clear sign that she is wanting to kiss you- some people are hard of hearing and read lips better than interpreting words, so this can seldom be mistaken.
Hints - "Here I thought you would like this" *a piece of paper with her number* ... Basically a girl puts "the ball in your court", meaning she is giving you the opportunity to advance, look for everything as no two people are the same.
This is probably a novel of information- let me try to make it a little less "memorizing".
If the girl is constantly trying to hold you, touch you, etc - she is comfortable with you and is interested in you. To understand when she is comfortable to kiss you, you must look for other things she does, like constantly putting on chapstick etc and so forth... You REALLY need to know what this girl is like before you are wanting "the kiss" - as you can tell what is different from BEFORE and know what is different AFTER reading her hints.
Sometimes girls will bluntly say something, listen to words, look at actions etc.
If you two have already had a date, please describe the date in a response (not where you went, just how you and her interacted) and I will try to judge based off of that information what I feel.
One final note that I did with a girl I was very intimidated by is this- I told her I wanted to kiss her in a text message... She knew I was shy etc, and I was young at the time, so it worked out - she texted me back "wow, me too haha" - I ignored her text at that, leaving some mystery as to when we would actually kiss... If I would have still felt comfortable with this girl, I knew I had the okay to kiss her.. She wasn't for me and so I respected her and eased off.
Question 2 ( What do you do when you can't bring a girl back to your place )
Respect her choice, she is a human being and maybe has something else going on that she doesn't want to bring to the plate (I.e. kids?)
In the end, be a gentleman but keep it mysterious
ArtistBBoy
Thx this is pretty good answer And no it's not her decision not to come to my place, where I live right now I just can't have her come over for a number of reasons
Oh and we didn't have a real first date but when I go out with her again maybe I'll give the details, thx
He needs to touch her respectfully to see if she responds.
Initially try with an innocent kiss. Kiss her softly, and then with a voraciousness. If she responds to the voracious kiss, then hold her face, look into her eyes intently. If her eyes are lustful, or she returns the same intense glaze innocently, then kiss her again softly, and then again, voraciously.
Follow her body language, if she pushes her body forward, then it will be safe to touch her somewhere respectfully. Try caressing her breast. On the outskirts of her blouse of course. if you can't bring her back to your place...then it pretty much stops there! LMAO. Sorry, just being honest.
Thx I hope I doesn't really have to stop there...
well whenever I'm ready to be kissed or makeout ill usually glance at there lips and try to get the guy to notice that I'm interested in kissing, ill bite my lip sometimes to and just smile.. To find out if she's ready you should lean in just a little and get closer to her, and if she leans in to then she's most likely ready and wants to...
However if you can't bring her back to your place then you should probably go to a party or something.. or if she lives by herself then you should try to go to her place..
i hope this was somewhat helpful :)
Thx this is good, do you know if other girls do what you do to show a guy your interest
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