I have seven secrets, from my extensive research:
1) use your tongue and cheeks. If you think about it, your lips only make a tiny ring, and they're always basically the same shape. Swirling, flicking and pulling your tongue should be your major focus. There are dozens of little things you can do with your tongue, you can use the tip, the sides, the underside, the whole thing, etc. You can also use your cheeks to provide this extra stimulation
2) Don't be afraid to use your hands. I usually start using them a while in, and then keep using them until he cums. It's not that great to take away the extra stimulation.
3) You can press down on the spot where the penis meets the stomach (on the side that's facing him). Use a finger or two to press down in the fold there. There are some veins here: this will cause extra blood to stay in the penis, making it swell a little bigger and harder, and increasing sensitivity. You'll feel it swell up if you do this right. Maybe don't do this the whole time, but he'll enjoy it. It will also usually make him come faster, which is good to know when your jaw gets tired, your knees hurt, or you're getting bored. :-P
4) Around the head is usually most sensitive, but any spot will go numb or painful if you stay there too long. Think of you you like to receive head: you wouldn't want the same thing for the whole time, but if you change up too often or too fast then he can't really get into it.
5) Watch some pornos to get ideas about tricks to do. This is less about what feels good and what looks good. Men are really visual about their sexuality. For example, I saw this porno where this girl was totally sloppy, slobbering, drooling, spitting, etc. It made her seem so wanton and dirty. I tried it one time, in the right mood (with some alcohol) and it drove my then-boyfriend totally crazy. It could seem degrading, but I think it all depends on the attitude. Watch some videos and you'll pick up on some unique things to try and surprise him.
6) Learn to love giving blowjobs. He'll see your enthusiasm and your energy and it'll turn him on. It'll also make you more creative and energetic. If you do some thinking about it, you can teach yourself to really enjoy giving head. Try thinking about the sensuality of it, the closeness, the physical sensations. Make a point to think about it during sex, when masturbating, when daydreaming. Tell yourself how much you want to do it. It sounds silly, but it'll work--and you'll both be happier with the results.
7) Moan. It'll turn him on
8) Swallow. This is a big deal to most guys, and it's just a little bit of salty protein. You can learn to love this just like you love giving blowjobs. You might not believe it, but visualization and fantasizing can change the way you think and make you a better lover.
9) Play with yourself. It'll help you get into it, learn to love giving head, and make sexy sounds that drive him crazy.
Don't forget, you'll want lots of practice!
I have a tongue piercing and the vibrating tongue ring, it intensifies the feeling. If you don't want to put a hole in your tongue you can by a slip on tongue vibrator at an adult store. Just the site of the tongue ring seems to be a turn on to guys. When giving a blow job, enjoy it allow his penis to turn you on, kinda like your making out only instead of kissing with tongues your caressing his dick. Explore I guarantee you'll know what It turns him on and you'd be surprised by how hot you'll get.
Listen to his noises while you're down there. If he doesn't make any, tell him to start. Then keep doing what he likes and stop doing what he doesn't (you can tell from him noises). It's so easy to listen but a lot of girls don't do that, I think. So you'll be the best he's ever had!
just follow this little guide and you will become bj queen:
1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.
2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.
3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.
4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.
5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.
6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.
7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.
8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.
9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ---->
10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.
Good luck
Rent some porn movies. It may sound gross but that'll give you a good idea. That fact your trying is awesome. The only thing involved in a good BJ is you lips, tongue and suction. DON'T use you teeth and try to keep you teeth of his little guy. The worst BJ I ever got was from a girl who just couln't keep her teeth out the equation and I was raw and sore after the process.
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1) use your tongue and cheeks. If you think about it, your lips only make a tiny ring, and they're always basically the same shape. Swirling, flicking and pulling your tongue should be your major focus. There are dozens of little things you can do with your tongue, you can use the tip, the sides, the underside, the whole thing, etc. You can also use your cheeks to provide this extra stimulation
2) Don't be afraid to use your hands. I usually start using them a while in, and then keep using them until he cums. It's not that great to take away the extra stimulation.
3) You can press down on the spot where the penis meets the stomach (on the side that's facing him). Use a finger or two to press down in the fold there. There are some veins here: this will cause extra blood to stay in the penis, making it swell a little bigger and harder, and increasing sensitivity. You'll feel it swell up if you do this right. Maybe don't do this the whole time, but he'll enjoy it. It will also usually make him come faster, which is good to know when your jaw gets tired, your knees hurt, or you're getting bored. :-P
4) Around the head is usually most sensitive, but any spot will go numb or painful if you stay there too long. Think of you you like to receive head: you wouldn't want the same thing for the whole time, but if you change up too often or too fast then he can't really get into it.
5) Watch some pornos to get ideas about tricks to do. This is less about what feels good and what looks good. Men are really visual about their sexuality. For example, I saw this porno where this girl was totally sloppy, slobbering, drooling, spitting, etc. It made her seem so wanton and dirty. I tried it one time, in the right mood (with some alcohol) and it drove my then-boyfriend totally crazy. It could seem degrading, but I think it all depends on the attitude. Watch some videos and you'll pick up on some unique things to try and surprise him.
6) Learn to love giving blowjobs. He'll see your enthusiasm and your energy and it'll turn him on. It'll also make you more creative and energetic. If you do some thinking about it, you can teach yourself to really enjoy giving head. Try thinking about the sensuality of it, the closeness, the physical sensations. Make a point to think about it during sex, when masturbating, when daydreaming. Tell yourself how much you want to do it. It sounds silly, but it'll work--and you'll both be happier with the results.
7) Moan. It'll turn him on
8) Swallow. This is a big deal to most guys, and it's just a little bit of salty protein. You can learn to love this just like you love giving blowjobs. You might not believe it, but visualization and fantasizing can change the way you think and make you a better lover.
9) Play with yourself. It'll help you get into it, learn to love giving head, and make sexy sounds that drive him crazy.
Don't forget, you'll want lots of practice!
You can't tell a guy to start making noises. He may be uncomfortable or insecure about it. But he will be able to tell you what he likes - personally my girlfriend puts my member in her mouth just past the 'head' and whilst she moves up and down she also takes her tongue and moves it in circular motions. But as the last guy stated - teeth are bad, they cause much pain and can cause him to go raw. Good luck and if you ask him what he likes more, while you're doing it, he'll tell you.
The best I can do is tell you what I like in blowjobs.
you can start by gently suckin on his balls while your jerkin him off
then lick from the bottom to the top where the big vein is
smakc his dick on your tongue acouple of times then lick around the edges of the head his dick
suck on the tip of the dick
i like it when the girl jerks me off and sucks my dick at the same .rythym.its in a lot of porn so watch a girl who like to use her hands
then while your blowing him with the technique above you can place both your hands on the left and right ass check and deepthroat.make sure gag alittle a lot of guys like that.
then after that alittle mouth f***in
then finally you can finish it off by usiing the ryhtm techiqnue while you blow him. it makes you come sooo much quicker
lol I've have my fair share of great blowjobs, hope these tips can help you
Why do guys like to hear you "gag"? This is news to me.
Prob makes them feel "big"
Practice!
Deep throat for sure.. have fun with it, and don't complain it just gets annoying.. we don't wanna hear it.. we may allow that with everything else but keep it to yourself here.
Deep throat/saliva for sure, wet is a must.. If you don't deep throat, it can be a let down for sure for a lot of guys.. but mix it up some...but don't stagger when you stop deep throating.. like don't take to long to get back to doing it if your gonna do something else make it fast.. but the deep throat depth and speed depends on the guy.. sometimes your better off going fast sometimes slow, depends on the guy and what kinda day he is having... communication helps..
I'm probably one of the more unusual cases but I like it when my girlfriend gives me head for a minute or two to get me hard, and then I just like her to lick around the base while I give myself a hand job. I used to get a bj from girls for 20 mins and still not be able to come but since my current Girlfriend started doing that I come every time...I just like the erotic feeling of the tongue and hot breath by the base better than the standard bj where she goes up and down the shaft. And another thing is that when I'm about to come she goes back and puts the head in her mouth and swallows the load, and that part I really like also
i agree with a lot of answers- I do think that an important factor is that a girl looks at he guy wen giving it as well, always helps
Just watch a porn
Best advice, right there.
Cover your teeth.
Apply a decent amount of pressure to the penis with you lips. Seriously when its too light it really hard to cum.
When its in your mouth use your tongue. Swirl it around the head of the penis.
If your using your hand around the base of the shaft, while sucking the top, use saliva to slide your hand up and down in rhythm with the up and down of your mouth. If you just sliding his skin covering the penis up and down, be careful pulling to far or on skin that doesn't slide can be painful.
I know this is another issue entirely, but you swallowing is amazing for a guy.
If you just show you really like to give, then it is a big turn on already.
Deep throat is good the only people who say otherwise are guys with gf's who can't do it, or the gf's that can't do it. The best advice I can give is take it as deep into your mouth as you can, and wiggle your tongue side to side on the bottom of his dick. Also tease him a little by doing things like pausing to lick his balls or something just when you think he is getting close to coming that will really drive him over the edge.
Well start by licking on side of his dick and balls move slowly towards balls or dick; lick his balls first so that the dick can get hard also lick between balls an ass feels good. Well then slowly star sucking his dick but always have your mouth with saliva will feel like its inside the vagina also when your doing blow job tell him that you like his dick pretend you are eating something delicious (mmm its good mmm) don't look at him on face I hate when my wife sees me maybe cause im making faces of pleasure well look at him but not too often. Also softly suck his head of his dick and with your tongue with a right left motion move it inside the eye of dick were cum comes out. , if you move your tongue right way he is going to feel like he is going to come but he doesn't it great same time with you hand jack him off. Like other guys say also deep throat if you like it if not don't some girls don't like doing that. Speed it all depends on him ask him communication makes better sex.
Deep throat is always good but don't be scared
I know I am not a guy but run your mouth slowly up the dick the head of it and take your tongue and twirl it around on the tip of the penis and do that all the way down the penis and then deep throat yourself - they like excitement!
Just suck the top of his cock, none of that deep throat crap, and do it gentle and slow.
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