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Sister is having anal masturbation what to do?

We live in a strict family. My sister is 25 years old. Our family morals is like she has to be virgin till she is married. She always declared that she has the same morals. Once I came in her flat and noticed anal lube. She explained that she uses it for masturbation. She have bought a dildo and only use it in anus because want to stay intact. I was very surprised and angry. I can't get over the mind she is sticking something in her ass. Should I tell her boyfriend that she's doing such dirty things?
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I could understand clitoral masturbation, but sticking something in to ass its gross.
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Never in ass...
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So I talked to her and she realized she's doing the wrong thing. So she promised me stop doing it. Also she said, she would like to try to abstain masturbation absolutely. I hope she will success.
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  • This is all the the fault of them purity rings and sh*t.

    The reason most of the anal masturbation rage is because of strict things like purity vows, purity rings, etc etc. It says you shouldn't have sex until your married, sex meaning penis into vagina, not penis into ass or dildo into ass.

    Then again I come from a background where masturbation is a good thing, sex is a good thing, and exploring your sexuality and being aware that sexuality and sex is natural is one of the damn commandments really.

    Her boyfriend's probably been sticking his penis in her ass, since neither of them are married and such. Anal sex is quite enjoyable if you do it right...

  • because your religion is different then mine, I will try to accommodate my answer to fit your views better... you love your sister correct? you want her to be happy? if you are concerned with what she is doing, shouldn't you speak with HER, and not her boyfriend? speak with her with an open mind, don't judge, just because you think something is wrong does NOT make it wrong.

    • How should I speak? What should I say?

    • You should say nothing at all and stay out of it. (the question asker)

    • Just let her know that you stumbled upon some of her things, and where you think it's wrong, you were curious why she did it. clearly you have very little understanding on a females sexuality, and if someone is going to enlighten you, perhaps it should be your sister. but don't be judgmental, listen to what she says.

  • Are you telling me that you've never masturbated before? Because if you have DOUBLE STANDARDS! what she does in her home, during her free time is HER business. Do not tell her boyfriend and its NOT dirty its part of human exploration. Let your sister be- it's her life and is she does turn out to have different morals than you get over it OK.

    • i think her boyfriend knows what the anal loob is for

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  • who do you think you are to tell your sister whether or not she may or may not masturbate, and where oh do to tell me where you think yo have the right to impose your "religious beliefs" on another person? I don't care if she's 25 or 45, its her body and you have NO SAY in the world to tell her what she may or may not do. Also, NO its not your place to tell her boyfriend because guess whats? Its none of your business...AT ALL.

    For the love of all that's holy, take your "family morals" and keep them to yourself.

  • Why are you angry? How are her masturbation habits hurting anyone?

    This has absolutely nothing to do with morals. In my opinion, you should stop thinking so much about your sister's anus being penetrated. I don't spend much time thinking about my family members masturbating, and I don't think it's healthy.

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  • No, worry about your life and let your sister live her own.

  • You'll probably never understand why she likes it, it's also not your place to do or say anything to anyone. If you think the boyfriend doesn't know what she's doing, you're completely naive. He probably helps.

    In other words, your religious and moral beliefs don't empower you to do anything. Stay out of it.

  • I have to be blunt here. Mind your own business. Use a bit of manners and forget what you saw.

  • wait you never masturbated?

  • If you were loyal, or sensitive, or compassionalte, I would suggest you say "Watch where you leave your lube. Someone could find it." In your case, though, you should say nothing; you won't do much good.

    It's none of your business what your sister sticks in her *ss, by the way. It's probably her boyfriend, anyway.

  • She's enjoying herself while sticking to what she promised within your family. Get the f*** over it.

    There is nothing wrong with that she's doing, it's her body, she can do what the hell she likes with it.

  • Religion or not, her personal choices are hers. Stay out of it.

    • I agree. +1

    • ALSO AGREE HERE

  • If she wants to shove things up her ass that's her business get lost =]

  • Maybe you should try it so that you might be able to get that stick out of your asshole. Why the hell are you so interested in your sisters private life? Welcome to the 21st century

  • You are an incredible A*S*S*H*O*L*E for butting into her life. She is not your wife or daughter. What right do you have to tell her what TO DO ? ? ?

  • First of all she is a mature female adult OVER the age of 18. You have NO business telling her what to do. If she enjoys it stay the F*U*C*K out of it. as for her boyfriend if you decided to tell him that would jusy make you low level scum. That is if you 100% sure he doesn't know, helping her, or doing it to her ! ! !

  • you weird her boyfriend probably knows. she's adult in her own flat your little keep your pussy skin in tact family dont mean shit

  • there's nothing wrong with anal masturbation its not like having sex i mean i stick a dildo up my ass and i am still a Virgin

  • Lol. Hmm that's just her thing. It's not like its in you ass so don't worry about. She isn't hurting anyone.

  • Mind your business and stop worrying about your sister's sex life. Get some business of yourself so you won't have to worry about what she's doing.

  • Gonna go out on a limb here and say that it's your anal lube and you're the one who masturbates anally.. Just a feeling... Just ask her politely for your lube back.

    • Lmfao ! ! I didn't think of it but a ggod point !

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