Why does my boyfriend takes ages to cum and sometimes dont at all?

[radka]

My boyfriend can last for hours to cum and sometimes dont at all. He says he dont masturbate at all on his own since we are together and he is great in bed he says he loves sex with me and enjoys every minute but still sometimes can't cum at all we tried so much now and still have the same problem, he says its not my fault, i believe it but how can i make sure he does finish, we dont use condom as i am on the pill and we try diferent positions all the time realy have no idea what else to do

[tinyclit]

My husband (who was my boyfriend at the time I discovered this) had the exact same problem when we first started having sex together. Turns out he can only cum via oral and cannot orgasm unless I swallow his cum. No bull. I'm 100% serious. Not only must I swallow his cum, I must enjoy cum swallowing. Any indication I'm not enjoying myself before he cums and he can't even cum. Any indication I'm not enjoying myself while I'm swallowing and he can't have an orgasm. Somehow his ability to orgasm is tied to my joy. It is therefore extremely important in our relationship when having sex that I enjoy swallowing. That's his fetish. Fortunately for him I love swallowing. I love the taste and the texture of thick salty cum. I swallow every time. I'm an enthusiastic cum swallowing fan. I get a cum high for hours afterwards. Seriously. I think every woman should love swallowing every bit as much as I do because it's great.

The way it works in practice is that early each morning he sits in a chair and I sit down in front of him. I put my head back and open my mouth wide for him to see. He lubes his cock up and strokes it while I talk dirty to him and beg for cum. Then he stands up, puts his hand on my head and cums into my wide open mouth. When he's done cumming I enjoy swallowing his cum. He intently watches me enjoy swallowing his cum. Then I lick and suck his cock squeaky clean. He has his orgasm while I'm doing that. His orgasm goes on so long it's clear he's having multiple orgasms. I remind him I love swallowing his cum and thank him for cumming.

[Anonymous]

If he feels like you're not enjoying it this might make it take longer for him to cum. Ironically, him taking longer to cum might make you not enjoy the 'going on for hours' part, so it can become self-fulfilling. If you kind of lie there looking bored it might make him take longer.. if you moan a bit and get into it and try enjoy it anyway that might bring him closer to cumming.. I mean don't need to fake it just let yourself enjoy it.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

If he is great in bed, and he says he loves sex with you and enjoys every minute... then at that point you don't have a problem.

Him not cumming is likely in his head (the one with ears). If you are both satisfied, don't over think it and stress.

[Klaatu51]

errr i'm afraid either his libido is low... or... he's not into you :-/

[drewtacular]

I have always had a hard time cuming.. Right before I cum my whole body will start to stiffen up.. my legs back etc.. So really the only position i can easily cum is when she is on top.. Its hard to continue to thrust in and out when all my muscles are locked up lol.. but when she is on top riding me I can go stiff as a board and she will ride me to orgasm..

Everyone is different.. If he is enjoying it. dont worry about it

[Noboddy]

He's probably lying that he doesn't masturbate.

[Anonymous]

Ask him what's his secret?