What does it mean when a guy suddenly holds you close to him really tight during sex?

[Anonymous]

Recently I gave into a guy that I have been going back and forth with on a friends with interest level for a few years. During the act he pulled me close to him really tight and began kissing me. What does it mean when a guy holds you that tight during sex? It kinda irritated me but I'm not sure if maybe he just got caught in the moment.

[archer86]

It may mean that his wants to do more than just F*CK! Some people call it romance and intimacy which most women really enjoy compared to just banging bodies. I like to hold my women close to me but not squeeze them in two.

If all you like to do is just lay there then tell him. Personally, I like kissing, hugging, foreplay and touching before, during and after sex but each to their own.

[tommyxd]

Well, maybe he figured that if doing that while lying side by side feels good, it would feel good while in ______ (fill in position) Gotta ask him I guess. Maybe see if he does it again?

[Anonymous]

It felt good to him. If you are trying to figure out if he did it because it means something, like he loves you, well I wouldn't put that much in to it.

[John-Bee]

I only hold a girl tightly or hug her tightly if I love her. I want her to be as close to me as I can. I would wrap my arms around he twice if I could.

[Opinion Owner]

That is you and that is cool but I have known guys to do things that seem like they are being loving when they aren't, they are just enjoying the moment.

[Anonymous]

he probably thought it'd be something you like. but tell him you don't next time

[jacquesvol]

I'd do that to express tenderness and affection, but I cannot vouch for your friend of course.

[lt17171717]

its seemed like a good idea at the time, you gotta tell him you don't like it or he will assume that you do

[Anonymous]

What position were you in?