What does it mean when a guy suddenly holds you close to him really tight during sex?
Recently I gave into a guy that I have been going back and forth with on a friends with interest level for a few years. During the act he pulled me close to him really tight and began kissing me. What does it mean when a guy holds you that tight during sex? It kinda irritated me but I'm not sure if maybe he just got caught in the moment.
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Most Helpful Opinion
It may mean that his wants to do more than just F*CK! Some people call it romance and intimacy which most women really enjoy compared to just banging bodies. I like to hold my women close to me but not squeeze them in two. If all you like to do is just lay there then tell him. Personally, I like kissing, hugging, foreplay and touching before, during and after sex but each to their own.
What Guys Said 3
I'd do that to express tenderness and affection, but I cannot vouch for your friend of course.
Well, maybe he figured that if doing that while lying side by side feels good, it would feel good while in ______ (fill in position) Gotta ask him I guess. Maybe see if he does it again?
its seemed like a good idea at the time, you gotta tell him you don't like it or he will assume that you do
What Girls Said 3
It felt good to him. If you are trying to figure out if he did it because it means something, like he loves you, well I wouldn't put that much in to it.
What position were you in?
he probably thought it'd be something you like. but tell him you don't next time