My guy friend sexted me but he said he was drunk and don't remember anything from that day. He is lying to me?

I suppose I will start at the beginning. So there's this guy, I like him a lot... I mean he means a lot to me. But two weeks after knowing him, I told him that I liked him but that was a bad idea cause he got mad at me and stopped talking to me cause he wasn't interested in me. But after like 2 months now, we fixed everything and we are friends again. But yesterday I don't know why but I sent him a pic of my booty and he liked it and complimented me but after a few minute he realized that we were making a mistake. So he asked me to stop and pretend like nothing happened. Later on at night, we were just talking as friends and boof, he started sexting me... I was surprised but I did it anyways. We were talking about what he would do with a girl and what I would do with a guy, stuff like that. It was fun and interesting. We talked from 1-3AM. But after that he told me he was going to bed. So in the morning he said that he was drunk and don't remember anything from last night. I thought he was kidding but he said he wasn't kidding. So I asked him if he wanted to know what we talked about and he said no. But after me teasing him and telling him that he was lying and do remember everything, he asked me to tell him what we talked about. So I told him and he got so mad at me and told me that I should of know that he was drunk. So I almost cry cause he was sort of blaming me. But after that I asked him if we were still friends and he said he needs time. Please help me... Why was he sexting me? Do you think he was actually drunk or he just regrets what happened and try to pretend like he was drunk? Do you think it's my fault? Please be completely honest... From confused!
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Plus he said it was a bad idea when I first sent him a booty pic... I mean it was only for like 3 second on snapchat and he asked me for a clear one. But after that he realize that we were making a mistake. But later one at night he sexted me...
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I didn't send him a lot of pictures. I only sent him one that night. We were talking about what I'd do with a guy and what he'd do with a girl. More like he wanted to know if I can give a great bj or not cause he was asking me for details... Do you think he wanted to be friend with benefits?
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  • You offered that to him and he accept it, why blaming him, he got what he want now move on because all this will never end it's start with a simple stupid picture and will end bad for u, forget and break the friendship if no stay and u'll end up having heart broken.

    • Well I don't want to break our friendship! I want to stay friend with him. And no I didn't blame him or anything plus I don't even regret it. I'm just mad at myself cause he won't talk to me

  • Its not your fault. You cannot blame yourself because of liking someone and when a girl like someone, she sexts. Sounds like he blames you but even he does not, He wouldn't have sext you if he hadn't liked you or hadn't found you hot

    • Do you think he regrets it? And nooooh I don't think he likes me. He told him that like months ago that he wasn't interested in me... So maybe after I sent him the booty pic? And do you think he hates me now?

    • He doesn't hate you, he is just regretful because he doesn't feel ready to be in a relationship with someone. And tryst me, when a guy gets drunk he does whatever he wants so at least he thinks you are hot;)

    • What makes you that he thinks I'm hot?

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  • He's probably lying. I know a guy who wants nudes from girls and denies that It wasn't him. And at that time he might be horny so he did it. Or maybe he wanted to see your limits.

    • What do you mean "he wanted to see my limits" ? And why is he lying?

    • Limits of your likeness towards him. And he's "probably" lying cuz guys always tend to lie too as far as I know.

    • And even if he says that he doesn't like you, why would he start sexting with you? There should be a likeness for you or he wouldn't have any interest in you. He eouldn't even text you. Sexting is a loooottt different in this case.

Most Helpful Guys

  • He knows what he was doing... he was horny and in the moment and if he was drunk enough to forget then none of his text would make sense.

    He got whatever thrill he needed and still didn't want a relationship with you, simple as that.

    • Then did he sext me? And I don't think he was drunk cause we were talking normally as friends and the all of sudden he reply to me "suck my ass" cause he knows I say that a lot

    • You said he sexted you so I have to off of that. How were his typing skills?

    • Do you think I should give him time to "think" ?

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  • Whether he was drunk or not, it doesn't matter. It's not your fault. It's his. He is just mad at himself and took it out on you

    • "we were just talking as friends and boof, he started sexting me". Haha Boof! Thought I was the only one who said that

    • He said he doesn't remember anything from that day! And when we were talking we told me he was watching a movie. I asked him about the movie just to see if he remember it and he said no I watched that movie like 2 days ago

    • It doesn't matter whether he remembers or not. But he probably knows more than he's telling you. You gotta be pretty darn drunk to not remember something and I doubt he was for the three hours he was sexting you. And if he was that drunk, sexting you would have been a very difficult task

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  • I'm calling bullshit on him forgetting. He forgot to delete the texts? And how would you know he was drunk. This sounds so stupid.

    • No it was on snapchat unfortunately :( and do you think he hates me now?

    • He's the one who got drunk, he's responsible for his actions when drunk. If he's "hating" you, then he's an idiot and you're better off wihtout him.

  • Im always up for some sc sexting. I do like doing it for girls that want to make me get off. Mmm. Im up if u are

  • this boy is a coward, forget him, finish him :)

  • Yeah he is lying very much so

    • Why he is lying? Do you think he remembers?

    • Why is he pretending like he was drunk?