You should consider that (at least imo) swallowing or taking a guy's juices is extremely sexy and romantic and not even in the "I'm dominating a woman" way that girls tend to use to justify not taking it. In my eyes, it's an expression of adoration of another person. I would imagine it would feel good for you if your man licked you and told (and showed through his actions!) you how much he loved your taste.
If it was your first time, well of course there's going to be some bumps in the road. You have to figure out how to understand the sensations of a new sexual experience before you can really enjoy it.
All that being said, you don't have to swallow if you genuinely decide you don't want to or don't like it. You don't have to do anything you don't want to and someone who pushes you in those directions is just inconsiderate. But it's never a bad thing to try it if you're open to the idea.
If you told your guy how you felt about the situation (as long as you're comfortable with it of course), he'll help you sort out whatever you're feeling. Feedback from your partner is a quick way to make things go from average to great! Maybe talk about what he likes and how you feel about how you did and it will be a lot clearer what approach to take next time.
I'm laughing that you made him finish in the garbage can! He's never going to forget that lol! And neither are you. Believe me, you will be laughing your ass off about this years from now.
Listen, it was your first time. You don't have to swallow. You also don't have to swallow the next, or the time after that. If you never want to swallow, that's completely up to you. As you become more comfortable with giving head, you might loosen up a bit and try it. Or you might let the guy come on you. Again though, it is completely up to you and you never have to do anything you don't want to.
ya guys don't like that let him finish on you if you don't want him in your mouth otherwise they like to finish in a girls mouth.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!In the garbage can? Ouch. Yes, next time - if you're not wanting to swallow - you might offer to let him finish on you. In your hands, on some part of your body, etc. It's psychological, but most guys really do feel like where they ejaculate matters when with a partner. If it's on you, the "connection" is still there between you. Props to you, though, for feeling weird about it and wanting to do better next time. Have fun! :)
The garbage can? Cute. I think someone got a little flustered, am I right?
Some girls don't like to swallow; I would suggest you taste a little first before adding it to your diet.
Maybe he can finish somewhere on your body? Some guys are hot for it, some girls are hot for it. Does nothing for me, but there's an idea. Do it in the shower, and you have an instant rinse.
Or, who knows? Maybe he thinks coming in the garbage can is hot. I've seen weirder.
Would it be bad if you were just about to orgasm and your boyfriend jumped off of you and handed you a dildo to finish yourself off?
Personally, having an orgasm into a garbage can is not my ideal of romanticism. Neither is head
Ya it is you bitch. Next you get it in the eye.
Lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!
don't worry about it. if you don't feel comfortable with it, then it is ultimately your decision. only do things that you are completely comfortable doing.
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