What makes a good kisser?

[Anonymous]

I have never really understood what a good kisser is. What makes a good kisser? A lot of tongue, a little, lots of head turning, lip biting... Discuss!

[just926]

I think it probably depends on the girl but the one thing I think is probably universal is that girls don't like it when you're stiff. Move with her, get into it, keep your lips soft. I personally like to get feisty when I kiss so if a guy bites my lip or lets me bite his then it's great but I'm sure a lot of girls aren't into that. I really love it when a guy uses his hands also. Like when he puts his hands on the back of your head, his fingers through your hair. And I don't know if this counts for making out but the one thing that will make me go crazy almost no matter what is if a guy sucks on my neck. Not hickey style, just basically making out with my neck and chest. Feels phenomenal.

[Anonymous]

For me, a good kisser is one who is really sensitive and responsive to the person they are kissing. (That is to say, they match each others subtle moves.) Personally, I have a preference for soft, gentle kisses, sometimes slowly building to a more passionate kiss. Saliva is under control (He doesn't slobber on my face), he doesn't open his mouth too wide (to swallow my face whole), and he isn't ramming his tongue down my throat. Any use of tongue is gradual and gently exploring, not attacking. My personal preference is for slow, sensual, not "too wet" kisses.

[Anonymous]

I agree with what the two other girls have said

soft, and gentle...no harshness involved.

as for tongue..it depends on the two people. ...i can say by experience it can be rather fun :)

[farmhand99]

Its very hard to tell I have made out with a few girls an they all seem to like different things

Some like tongue some don't

some like it in the dark some don't

some like if you lick around there lips some don't

some like it a little slower

some like it a little faster

its all about who it is an wa she likes

Just try an I guess go along with it an eventually you'll be able to tell by her body language what she likes

But make sure she wants to keep doing it not like make out for a hour if she doesn't want to