so I get self conscious when I give my boyfriend oral; I can deepthroat, but I sometimes choke and I get really embarrassed - but he tells me he thinks its hot... do most other guys think it's hot too?
If your boyfriend thinks it's hot when you choke while giving him a boyfriend it's because he watches porn a lot, and if that's the case then he's kinda forgotten what's normal and what's not to the point that he gets turned on to stupid stuff like that now. If you still like choking once in awhile when you deep throat him that's fine because that's up to you. It has absolutely nothing to do with giving a great bj. So no, I don't find it hot when a girl chokes when giving oral because isn't choking something that's not comfortable and what usually leads to puking? It's like saying that a guy finds it hot when a girl hurts when having sex because it's like she's a virgin. A normal isn't suppose to get turned on when his girl hurts trying to pleasure him.
No, and neither does your boyfriend. What he means to say is that he really loves the effort, that the fact that you want him in your throat is really appealing to him. The choking part is just a side-effect. He doesn't really want you to be uncomfortable.
It's really hot, IF you don't get self-concious about it. It can be a turn on because it shows us you're really trying to take it all in. Also, it can help you drool and give a sloppier BJ, which is also a turn on. The wetter the better. So, don't be embarassed, just keep going and stay focused. It's really sexy.
Definitely hot and yes it does show that extra little effort. Try using some Vick's chloraseptic spray like ten minutes before hand that will basically numb your throat a little and you should loose the gag reflex.