Will my boyfriend be able to tell I had sex with someone else?

So a couple days ago I f***ed this guy with a huge d***. Since then I've noticed that my vag opening seems bigger and more stretched out..will my boyfriend be able to tell I was with someone else? I think me and him will see each other tomorrow and we will probably have sex..
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  • He'll definitely notice. The only thing is that he won't actually know, unless he finds cum stains on your cloths, so you should keep fucking this other guy & maybe 1 of his friends.

    You should get your boyfriend into bed & ask him if he wants to watch porn with you.
    That way you can play with him, while asking him what he would think if it was you being fucked in that video.
    That way you can open him up to the idea & let him know you've always thought about being with another guy, like maybe 1 of his friends (while you're currently stimulating him talking about it).
    Then ask him to record you blowing him & tell him that you want him to think of you as one of them other girls in the video & imagine that you're blowing someone else.
    Then stop & tell him to call one of his friends to come over tomorrow & grab his phone to send your home made video with your number.
    That way you can fuck however you like, when ever you like & as long as you share a video of it with your boyfriend, he'll be ok with you being his very own slut.
    This just means you're going to have to be having a lot more sex

  • No, your boyfriend won't be able to tell just by how your vagina feels when having sex. If both guys have said you're really tight then unless you have sex with this guy a lot of time plus your boyfriend then he won't be able to tell because you'll always shrink back each time after you're with this guy because it won't be all that often. Even if there is a slight difference your boyfriend won't notice that unless he's very suspicious ahead of time. It would really have to be a lot looser in order for him to be able tell the difference. Just make sure you're your usual self when having sex with your boyfriend so that there's nothing else to question.

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  • Your vagina doesn't automatically become loose because you have sex with a lot of men. Unless he's trying to shove his head up your cootch repeatedly, you hoo-ha will retain it's shape until you have babies. Think of your vaginal walls as a balloon - blowing a little air into it does not distort the shape. It's when you blow it up completely - leave it that way for a while - that causes it to be stretch beyond repair. Fortunately, that vag is not made of latex, but muscles. There are exercises that can be done to retain your virginal tightness - or at least get close.

    I'm thinking it's more of a psychological problem that you feel you vag is larger than it really is. Could be paranoia that you're going to get caught or remorse for betraying your man - something I guess you need to figure out on your own.

    • I disagree. He will more than likely notice

  • You know I'm getting really sick of people on here being so judgmental. All this girl asked was a question and I'm sure all she wants is a straight answer. Why is that so hard for people to do? I don't think she needs people lecturing her and what she "should have" done, because obviously it's too late for that now.

    And he might be able to tell the difference, but if you don't want to be with him, then just break up with him so you both can just move on.

    • Ya but it's not necessarily too late for her to not make the same mistake... Look relationships are all about COMMUNICATIONS... If your in a committed relationship you just cheated on him and quite frankly I personally would walk away without any remorse... But then again I'm not about commited relationships I just try to be the best man possible and let her decide whether or not she wants that. Just my two cents

  • I don't think he'll think anything of it because he probably doesn't have the possibility of you cheating with another guy in his head. It sounds like you don't want to be in this relationship and would rather live the single life of not worrying about things like this. So I suggest you just break it off with him.

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  • he might, I would. Not only body language as some people suggest, also the smell. Add to that the bodily fluids from yourself, if not present when they are usually there, then there's something wrong.

    But mainly the body language plus the smell. I'm a weird individual though.

  • 1) It's possible.

    2) Your actions, body language and what you say have a higher chance of giving it away than your vagina does.

    3) What do you think he'll do when he finds out?

    Intuition happens on both sides of the sex divide. If he becomes suspicious it'd be best to offer the truth than to have him deduce it.

    • Of course... that's assuming you're remorseful. If you're not, then just dump the guy and go for the d*ck.

    • No ways he will not find out,just try to be wet....

  • He will be able to tell a difference. And I have no respect for you. If you wanted out, you should have dumped him. Not cheated on him. You have no idea how terribly it hurts to find out your girl has slept with someone else. All it would take is a 30 second phone call... "hi, its over, bye". That would be soooo much better than cheating, and its just as spineless.

  • OK lets run through this slowly! Last night you f**ked a guy with a large d**k, cheating on a boyfriend that you think you are f**king tomorow night, but want to break up with anyway? Have I got this pretty close to right?

    • Yep. Pretty spot on!

  • Well that's not really the issue. The issue is, would you have a problem telling him the truth if he did notice and ask about it?

    • No, I would be able to tell him. I have been wanting to break up with him for a while actually..I just wanted to know if it's possible for him to tell by looking at it or if it might feel different.

    • Well it's not out of the question but I don't think it's something you need to be all that worried about! :)

  • He's going to find out, one way or another, and not by your vagina.

    • Word. I'm just gonna tell him..

    • Don't just tell him. Open him up to the idea of having sex with other people

  • Its probably the AIDs that will be a dead give away... 😒

  • He will know he either won't care or he will. Depends on how much he has invested in you.

    Be careful here too many people have been in a DV for this very thing. So be safe dont be stupid.

    If my ex told me it was over and she wanted to experince life as a young female trying to get wild before she is old. Ill understand better than hey i like fucking bigger guys than your tiny dick and your also a piece of shit cause even though i like it you made me realize i dont like guys like you.

    Just a guys perspective. Trying to be nice considering your cheating and being disloyal and unfaithful and all the things that go against making a reltionship a relationship.

    So go have fun and stop waisting the time of both of you

  • Does he cum inside you? How did you start fucking another guy?

  • Disregard you not knowing how your vagina naturally works. You're a shitbag for cheating.

  • If he has experience of some sort. He will feel the difference. I can feel the difference in past relationships when they weren't as big. So it might be a thing for some guys not to but some can and will

  • For guys here first thing is to understand that no women wants guys to know thats it very much possible to see if a girl recently had sex or not. And i've seen this throughout every blog or site. Every almost every girl denies that fact but it possible. If she slept with someone with a bigger dick then you then it very easy becoz pussy is an elastic muscle, not an actual elastic band so it doesn't just return back to normal or it normal resting position.

    It way easier to spot it if your use to having sex with her u'll see the pattern of how long it takes for it to goes back to normal (tightness). And all of this is based on experience.

    This other girl i knew (only slept with one guy only on 3 occasions before he cheated) her V. would go through a 5 day process before going back to normal, point where i couldn't tell if she has sex with another guy through examing her V. During sex (how it felt) but with others it took longer. So if she your girlfriend and your not an idiot you can tell when u fuck her. Or you can just see the guilt and shame in her eyes if she still has a conscience

  • I want to fuck someone tomorrow

  • You mean your ex?

  • She probably not leaving him because he prolly burning money on her and the big penise only wants booty call from her and he doesn't want a relationship with her. so big penise gets a free ride and small one pays for it. Either way she gets it when she wants it until another guy comes and fulfills her better.

  • have yu guys had sex before this other guy?.. if yu had sex with this other guy b4 yur boyfriend he might not notice but do not lie about it..

  • I cheated on my ex boyfriend with a guy that had a big D*ck... And no he couldn't tell ! :]

    • He prob could...

  • YES !

  • dont cheat. because of people like you girls get bad reps. I was dumped a while ago because my ex thought I was cheating while he was out of town because I wasn't very tight when really I was just using a dildo when he was gone. so you stop cheating !

    • Uh..how about you don't tell me what to do? Boyfriends like mine are the reason girls cheat. If you were just using a dildo your ex should have understood that, he was an idiot and you are better without him.

    • Well then dump your bf.

    • what? your ex-bf whas an insecure idiot! keep using the dildo and find someone to make you enjoy it even more. Just don't be a cheater!

  • considering you seem to be a slut, probably not since I'm sure you were loose as a goose before this anyways

    • Actually, I've only been with one guy before,my boyfriend. This was only the second guy I've been with. So no, I'm not a slut. And they both tell me I'm really tight. The guy I was with the other day was like "Are you sure you're not a virgin? Cause you are really f***ing tight"

    • If you're banging someone other than you're boyfriend then yeah this guy is right, you're still quite a slut.