Sometimes I like to be on bottom because I like to be dominated. And sometimes I like to be on top because I know he likes me to be the one dominating and in control. And yes I am talking about making out lol
I prefer bottom, but sometimes my guy will suddenly initiate a switch and that can be pretty arousing too. I like the feeling that he is overpowering me when he is on top, though if I am feeling rough, I will take the lead and hold him down instead. ;)
I like being on top because of the way he looks at me! Like, we'll be making out and I'll be like straddling him or on top of him lying down and I'll sit up and pull my hair over one shoulder and he'll just look at me like I'm the most beautiful thing and it's honestly just great.
Either or. Sometimes being on the bottom makes me feel turned on. While being on top makes my guy feel turned on. Switching on and off can be fun too. Once me and my guy were on his bed and we rolled off. Hahaha that was so fun and funny at the same time.
I like swapping around a fair bit. When he's on top I feel really safe and helpless at the same time, it's weird but yeah. But then when I roll on top of him I can control the depth of the kisses. It's fun then because you also get into a bit of a war to see who ends up on top.