My Friends Talk About My Little Sister Sexually,Advice?

Question

Ok,so I'm 19,my sister is 16(I know not a little child) but she and I are very close,and I am very protective of her.I know what teenage guys are thinking when they try to get with her and I'm not gonna let some fool use her.Well,some of my friends think she's "hot" and "sexy" and they love to make sexual comments about her,her body,what they would do to her and what they think she's like in bed and how they would love to take away her virginity.They even said they'd make a bet of who can get her in bed faster.Of course,being her brother,i don't enjoy horny guys going gaga over my little sister and I certainly don't want a bunch of aholes talking about my sister like that.Advice?

ILoveElijah · Accepted Answer

I think your friends are being disrespectful saying those things in front of you. Especially betting who can have sex with her first.

Sit her down as a big brother, and talk to her about sex. She might roll her eyes and think it's all baloney now, but as she gets older she will realize how right you are.

. Let her know that there are two types of guys in the world. Dogs and Gentlemens. The dogs will pretend that they like her, only to get a step closer to getting into her pants. The only thing they will want out of her is a couple of nuts and they will hit the road.

The gentlemens will genuinely like her and want to get to know her for her. Sex will be the last thing on their mind. Let her know that she will run into many dogs and to be very aware of them, because they will only break her heart.

Tell her her body is very precious and men will treat her according to the way she operates and carries herself. It is natural for her to be curious about sex at this age, and if she has any questions tell her to come to you.

clovergirl94 · Accepted Answer

If you and your sister are close, I would talk to her about it. Don't tell her what your friends think of her (girls tend to use that information to their advantage) but tell her how she's a pretty girl [you can say it without being a creep] and how she needs to watch out for dumb guys who only want to use her, give her advice about watching out for those certain guys, and you can say it in a joking way so it's not too dramatic, haha, but make sure she knows your serious. Your friends are disrespecting both of you, and they're probably doing it because they know it gets under your skin, next time they do it, be the bigger person and find a way to show them how immature they are. I'm not exactly sure, because I'm not a guy, but you'll handle it fine. Nice brotherly-ness of you ;)